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merlotgran Sat 31-Aug-24 11:19:41

If this were a light hearted thread, I’d be tempted to suggest that Gransnet is beginning to feel like Midsomer Murders. Yet another poster has disappeared in mysterious circumstances.

It’s deadly serious though. Attempts to contact Urmstongran are falling on stony ground and many of us are concerned because we know how challenging her life is at the moment.

Many of us have received messages of support from Urms when life has dealt us the cruellest of blows and yet we are unable to contact her via pms.

She always let us know when she was taking a break from GN so to go on a long awaited holiday and just disappear is out of character.

I suspect foul play and I’m not taking the p**s!

MissAdventure Sun 01-Sept-24 15:28:39

There was nothing funny being said about Rayner.

HousePlantQueen Sun 01-Sept-24 15:28:42

MissAdventure

Oh, I don't.
I think it's old fashioned and misogynystic.

And nasty and judgemental. I cannot think of any occasion when it is appropriate. Especially when used to describe someone that nobody on here knows.

On the subject of AR, Nadine Dorries has leapt in to criticise her for dancing on holiday. This from someone who ate an ostrich anus, on TV, while a serving MP. confused

MissAdventure Sun 01-Sept-24 15:30:06

gringrin
People in glass houses spring to mind.

Grannybags Sun 01-Sept-24 15:39:04

annsixty

I could cope with Sean Bean any day of the week.

Hands off he’s mine! 😁

Allira Sun 01-Sept-24 15:51:47

Squiffy

In terms of insults, an ex-neighbour called the three year old son of another ex-neighbour a guttersnipe! shock Could that be used to describe a man?

Someone once called my 13 month old grandson 'a thug'.
😃

Allira Sun 01-Sept-24 15:54:33

Aveline

Sean Bean? No thanks. I'd rather stick to Mr A.

I don't know your Mr A but so would I!

Sean Bean has never appealed to me at all.

BlueBelle Sun 01-Sept-24 15:54:54

MissA I agree with your posts It got horrible and not about her trouser suit at all that’s down to personal likes and dislikes the things said about HER were disgusting

rafichagran Sun 01-Sept-24 16:01:34

I agree with posters who say that the things posted about Angela Rayner were disgusting. It's not about personal likes and dislikes it was about people being rude, crude, and snobbish, not a good look.
Being likened to a tart is offensive whatever way you want to dress it up.

Siope Sun 01-Sept-24 16:07:59

Still, the posters concerned were posting for weeks after that, so I doubt they were banned for that.

Anniebach Sun 01-Sept-24 16:09:29

What was said about Angela Rayner was vile

dalrymple23 Sun 01-Sept-24 16:27:01

Terrific! Love it!

MissAdventure Sun 01-Sept-24 16:34:24

Siope

Still, the posters concerned were posting for weeks after that, so I doubt they were banned for that.

You're right.
I'm sure it's the old "I speak as I find" issue.

Tuaim Sun 01-Sept-24 17:03:22

Grannybags

annsixty

I could cope with Sean Bean any day of the week.

Hands off he’s mine! 😁

And mine! The thinking woman's bit of rough.

Aveline Sun 01-Sept-24 17:33:03

Hoi! Are you saying I'm not a thinking woman? I can assure you I am. I'm just not a fan of Sean Bean.

HousePlantQueen Sun 01-Sept-24 18:19:03

Dinahmo

HPQ Nor do I understand. There are a few who often remind us of how successful they've been and I find the constant repetition a bit boring. However, it is easy to skip over those bits.

What I do find irritating are those who venture to go on to N & P and then complain about being "showed down" by others. The N & P forum is bound to attract strong opinions and it is sometimes necessary to have a thick skin.

Those who use the remaining forums as well as N & P are usually thoughtful, kind and informative in their responses.

Finally, I would prefer if posts were not removed, unless it is at the poster's request.

I agree, I would prefer that poster's nasty comments were left for all to see and judge.

Oreo Sun 01-Sept-24 18:53:50

kittylester

Having skim read the thread, u have 3 random comments

I can't see there is anything wrong with commenting on being politically aware and having an opinion of a person's clothes. I am a woman, I can multitask.

It is sad that hokes go over some people's heads but that shouldn't stop us taking jokes. Maybe the person perceiving something as an insult should hold fire and try to consider whether it may have been a joke.

And, I've forgotten what my 3rd random point was.grin

Agree, just cos a few don’t get jokes or any kind of humour doesn’t mean it should stop.
I would further say that any posts disliked about any subject at all are simply that, disliked, but that’s just too bad, if it isn’t a racist remark or personal attack on another poster and therefore subject to deletion then posters have to toughen up and realise that if they’re offended, well that’s it they’re offended.

Oreo Sun 01-Sept-24 18:55:35

Aveline

Hoi! Are you saying I'm not a thinking woman? I can assure you I am. I'm just not a fan of Sean Bean.

Have you seen Sean Bean in the past in uniform as Sharpe?
Cor!

MissAdventure Sun 01-Sept-24 18:57:11

It is gnhq who decide what and who to delete, for the umpteenth time.
Do you honestly think any one member here has the power to make gnhq delete sooner because they cantankerous a joke?!?

Doodledog Sun 01-Sept-24 18:57:42

I agree, Oreo. But the offended posters have a right to say so. People can't expect to be offensive and not be told. I wouldn't ban people for very much at all, but nor do I think people should have free rein to say what they like, and shout down anyone who disagrees.

MissAdventure Sun 01-Sept-24 18:57:55

grin
Ignore that.
It doesn't even make sense to me.

Doodledog Sun 01-Sept-24 18:58:32

grin.

Oreo Sun 01-Sept-24 18:59:35

They cantankerous a joke Miss A?
I will try and make a cantankerous joke but need time.😄

MissAdventure Sun 01-Sept-24 19:01:07

The site is for everyone, regardless of whether others like them or not.
It isn't for the elite few to be given free reign to say what they want, however they see fit.

It's sod all to do with jokes or humour, or news and politics.

Doodledog Sun 01-Sept-24 19:02:06

MissAdventure

The site is for everyone, regardless of whether others like them or not.
It isn't for the elite few to be given free reign to say what they want, however they see fit.

It's sod all to do with jokes or humour, or news and politics.

Agreed.

MissAdventure Sun 01-Sept-24 19:02:13

I didnt even know I could spell cantankerous!!!! grin