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JohnnyMo Sun 24-Aug-25 09:11:24

๐™‚๐™–๐™ก๐™–๐™ญ๐™ฎ: I must tell the white working boys who are least likely to achieve in education how lucky they really are.

๐™‚๐™ง๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ช๐™›๐™› : Maybe you should start another thread about why they underachieve as a group. I doubt if it has anything to do with other cultures.

Casdon Sun 24-Aug-25 18:13:59

What are you saying here David49, that men canโ€™t hack difficult classes, where by implication, women can? Surely thatโ€™s not what you mean?

David49 Sun 24-Aug-25 18:26:10

Men expect to be in control of their situation that is not the reality of many classrooms, women are more tolerant and allow indiscipline to get through the day.

So if you like women can hack it and we have seen the results

Casdon Sun 24-Aug-25 18:27:35

Good grief.

JohnnyMo Sun 24-Aug-25 18:59:42

paddyann54

Oh dear Johnny the pie chart was invented by William Playfair..Scottish businessman,engineer and writer in 1801 Used by FN but definately not invented by her.You usually get asked for facts on this siteโ€ฆmaybe check before you post!

I stand corrected, she is believed to have invented the "bat's wing" (fixed angle [30 deg = 1 month], variable radius) version of the pie chart rather than the classical version (fixed radius, variable angle).

Iam64 Sun 24-Aug-25 19:13:22

David49

Men expect to be in control of their situation that is not the reality of many classrooms, women are more tolerant and allow indiscipline to get through the day.

So if you like women can hack it and we have seen the results

On a thread full of judgemental nonsense, that really takes the prize.
Itโ€™s women to blame for everything. We intrude into male sports because โ€œtheyโ€ encourage us to. We are over represented in the teaching profession, so discipline is falling.
Poor men, sidelined, ignored and out down

I seem to recall growstuff wryly responding that she looks forward to a discussion on this important issue. Best of luck there

MaizieD Sun 24-Aug-25 19:16:15

Casdon

Good grief.

That's what I thought, too ๐Ÿ˜

I wonder if David has ever spent time teaching or assisting teachers in a secondary school?

I've seen women teachers who can quell a class with a glance and men who couldn't control one child, let alone 30 plus.

I do think you should realise that the 1950s is long gone, David ๐Ÿ˜‚

hollysteers Sun 24-Aug-25 19:18:44

David49

Men expect to be in control of their situation that is not the reality of many classrooms, women are more tolerant and allow indiscipline to get through the day.

So if you like women can hack it and we have seen the results

Obviously no experience of being taught by nuns.

David49 Sun 24-Aug-25 19:25:04

Casdon

Good grief.

I say to all the former teachers here on GN the current chaos in schools sits firmly in your laps. Of course you will try to blame others, I honestly canโ€™t think of any reason why a man would want to teach today.

Casdon Sun 24-Aug-25 19:29:13

David49

Casdon

Good grief.

I say to all the former teachers here on GN the current chaos in schools sits firmly in your laps. Of course you will try to blame others, I honestly canโ€™t think of any reason why a man would want to teach today.

Iโ€™m not a former teacher. I do find your chauvinistic attitude to women teachers very offensive though. How dare you blame women teachers for the state of the youth of today.

foxie48 Sun 24-Aug-25 19:33:13

Good grief with nobs on! No one in a difficult teaching situation "gets by" by tolerating indiscipline it's a downhill track to oblivion. Good teachers of both sexes maintain acceptable ,behaviour by using a variety of methods appropriate to the situation and expecting to be in control all of the time is setting yourself and your students up for failure. IMO good teachers strive for co-operation and engagement not control, when you have that, you don't need discipline. I speak from experience having taught in some very challenging environments.

MadameFeuveral Sun 24-Aug-25 19:35:38

I think itโ€™s a shame that more men donโ€™t go into teaching. Itโ€™d be such a good thing for the young boys. There was only one male teacher in my childrenโ€™s primary school.

โ€œMen expect to be in control of their situation that is not the reality of many classrooms, women are more tolerant and allow indiscipline to get through the dayโ€

I donโ€™t necessarily disagree that female teachers are more tolerant of bad behaviour than male teachers. But looking at the behaviour of teenage boys in school now itโ€™s a wonder anyone wants to teach them, and I can understand why women are intimidated and scared of it - theyโ€™re not the parents, after all, theyโ€™re there to teach. Discipline comes mainly from homeโ€ฆ itโ€™s a big problem sad

Allira Sun 24-Aug-25 19:40:16

hollysteers

David49

Men expect to be in control of their situation that is not the reality of many classrooms, women are more tolerant and allow indiscipline to get through the day.

So if you like women can hack it and we have seen the results

Obviously no experience of being taught by nuns.

๐Ÿ˜‚

theworriedwell Sun 24-Aug-25 19:42:13

Kandinsky

We have to keep white working class boys down as theyโ€™re the only ones who join the army and risk their lives protecting their country.

Yes those working class prince william and prince harry are great examples.

David49 Sun 24-Aug-25 19:49:05

MaizieD

Casdon

Good grief.

That's what I thought, too ๐Ÿ˜

I wonder if David has ever spent time teaching or assisting teachers in a secondary school?

I've seen women teachers who can quell a class with a glance and men who couldn't control one child, let alone 30 plus.

I do think you should realise that the 1950s is long gone, David ๐Ÿ˜‚

The thread is about young males under achieving you are all supporting the existing system which has seen male teachers fall to about one third and still falling.
Children have to learn respect many do from their parents and do well at school, teachers are simply not respected today by pupils or indeed parents, how do you expect children to learn.

Yes I am a product of the 1960s school system, nobody disrespected a teacher, discipline was good we all got jobs at 16, the bright ones went to technical college some university.

Here you are arguing your system is better - it isnโ€™t.

Iam64 Sun 24-Aug-25 19:57:06

David49, itโ€™s a miracle anyone goes into teaching pm an even greater miracle that they stay.
Weโ€™ve had 15 years of our public servants, including teachers, running up huge university debts then being expected to work ridiculously long hours with inevitable stress.
We have children in mai stream who in the past would have been in residential special schools. Iโ€™m a supporter of inclusion but it has to be properly resourced
Thank heavens โ€˜some posters โ€˜ arenโ€™t the education minister or teaching our children

And the misogyny towards women on this thread is astonishing

Casdon Sun 24-Aug-25 19:59:28

David49

MaizieD

Casdon

Good grief.

That's what I thought, too ๐Ÿ˜

I wonder if David has ever spent time teaching or assisting teachers in a secondary school?

I've seen women teachers who can quell a class with a glance and men who couldn't control one child, let alone 30 plus.

I do think you should realise that the 1950s is long gone, David ๐Ÿ˜‚

The thread is about young males under achieving you are all supporting the existing system which has seen male teachers fall to about one third and still falling.
Children have to learn respect many do from their parents and do well at school, teachers are simply not respected today by pupils or indeed parents, how do you expect children to learn.

Yes I am a product of the 1960s school system, nobody disrespected a teacher, discipline was good we all got jobs at 16, the bright ones went to technical college some university.

Here you are arguing your system is better - it isnโ€™t.

35% of teachers at secondary school level are male David 49, are they all failing young men too?

LizzieDrip Sun 24-Aug-25 20:00:54

I never ever in my whole career told any boy that his masculinity was toxic or mentioned white privilege. BAME and female students weren't given any privileges either

Same growstuff - 30 years a teacher and school leader.

Never experienced it in any classroom either.

LizzieDrip Sun 24-Aug-25 20:05:11

David49

Men expect to be in control of their situation that is not the reality of many classrooms, women are more tolerant and allow indiscipline to get through the day.

So if you like women can hack it and we have seen the results

What absolute, misogynistic rubbish!

Do you have teaching experience David?

Do tell!

David49 Sun 24-Aug-25 20:21:59

There were no teaching assistants to keep order, my class was 35 yet you all complain that class sizes are too large. There were just as many poor families in those days although probably less single parents

One of the differences between private and state schools is
discipline is enforced, my parents expected me to behave, inevitably I transgressed and got punished, I took my punishment but I did not want my parents to find out, I would have been punished again.

David49 Sun 24-Aug-25 20:23:33

LizzieDrip

David49

Men expect to be in control of their situation that is not the reality of many classrooms, women are more tolerant and allow indiscipline to get through the day.

So if you like women can hack it and we have seen the results

What absolute, misogynistic rubbish!

Do you have teaching experience David?

Do tell!

Why wonโ€™t women admit they have failed so many children

Casdon Sun 24-Aug-25 20:26:23

I think Iโ€™ve entered a parallel universe.

keepingquiet Sun 24-Aug-25 20:30:50

Casdon

I think Iโ€™ve entered a parallel universe.

No, I think David is in it!

MadameFeuveral Sun 24-Aug-25 20:45:35

David49

There were no teaching assistants to keep order, my class was 35 yet you all complain that class sizes are too large. There were just as many poor families in those days although probably less single parents

One of the differences between private and state schools is
discipline is enforced, my parents expected me to behave, inevitably I transgressed and got punished, I took my punishment but I did not want my parents to find out, I would have been punished again.

I actually agree with you there David, that discipline is so lacking. But would your solutions to the current problems be?

Iam64 Sun 24-Aug-25 20:54:55

why wonโ€™t women admit they have failed so many children asks David?

Where to start ? What about the absent fathers, who play no part in bringing up their children.
Parallel Universe indeed

Iam64 Sun 24-Aug-25 20:55:51

By the way, I wouldnโ€™t welcome back to the future where boys were routinely beaten or caned