Oh dear! Why does Christmas cause problems? My son and family invited us to their house on Christmas Day which I was really looking forward to as since a teenager and except for the odd day since I've cooked Christmas dinner. Since this arrangement they've had another baby so I said to come to me to save hassle and this was agreed. Then I was told they're coming early Christmas morning and leaving by 3pm because the inlaws are visiting them. I've been through the mill healthwise these last few months and just can't face having to rush. It would also mean leaving me with all the clearing as well as preparation and I'll be stuck in the kitchen missing the children open their presents. So on the phone today I suggested we have a Christmas meal on another day. That went down like a lead balloon although DS said he understood but of course it means they will have to cook a dinner themselves. I feel guilty now but on the other hand the stress of having to have things done by a certain time etc will not do me any good. It might be an opportunity for my DG and family to come round. Neither she nor I have mentioned any arrangements yet as things are difficult there too. Have any other GNrs had this experience?
I've got another 'keen'... Ouch!