Neither of my GCs look like me, but DGD does have my curly hair, although hers is dark. However, it is their love of reading and books from a very young age that is what makes me feel very close to them. I was so happy when I arrived one day when DGS was a tiny baby, maybe 7 months, only just able to sit up on his own but holding a board book I had bought for him, and carefully turning the pages. I buy books from charity shops village fetes and in sales in bookshops throughout the year, they read them when they stay the night and take some home with them. They have bunkbeds here and they are surrounded by double-sided bookshelves, like a cave! Bedtime here is no problem, as it wasn't for me, because we all read ourselves to sleep.