My dad's dad died soon after returning from the first world war - untreated post traumatic stress led to pneumonia. His wife, my maternal grandmother, had a tough life and was a tough old biddie, but she retained her gentility to the very end. My mum's dad died when I was 4; the only memory I have of him is when he was in bed, but there was a real feeling of love in the room. My Gran, his wife, came to live with us when I was 10, and she's the one I have most memories of. I shared a bedroom with her for a while and she liked to read in bed until midnight. I couldn't sleep with the light on, so my abiding memory is of burying my head in the pillow, praying she would finish reading soon! As I was a good little girl, I never told anyone - I'm sure she would have been mortified if she had known, she was such a lovely lady.
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