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Why dont people understand the words ‘stay at home’ !

(139 Posts)
Sophiasnana Fri 27-Mar-20 10:55:01

I am going a little stir crazy, having spent the last five days in my home and garden, apart from a short walk every day. Abiding by the ‘rules’. However yesterday the nice 74 year old lady across the road went for three runs in her car, then her ‘manfriend’ arrived to stay. Next door walked their dogs twice and went out in their car twice. The gent on the other side, as he has always done, went off in his car four times! What for? It frustrates me as the more people ignore the rules, the longer this will go on for. Rant over! ???

Wibby Fri 27-Mar-20 19:17:50

Im in sheltered housing, today we had a letter pushed through the letterbox re the coronavirus telling us what we can and cannot do. A bit late in the day when people here have been going out and chatting with each other in close proximity, and having visitors call on them!

Lucca Fri 27-Mar-20 19:20:38

Wi by, Why have they ? It’s been made pretty clear on the news for days.

Susan56 Fri 27-Mar-20 20:07:12

sandelf,my daughter gave me the same advice.Our next door neighbour has just telephoned to tell us that another neighbour has told him that if he doesn’t abide by the rules they will be reporting him.

Sparklefizz Fri 27-Mar-20 20:11:28

In India, apparently, the police are hitting people's legs with an iron bar if they are caught away from home, and if it happens a second time, they are threatened with being shot shock confused

ginny Fri 27-Mar-20 20:16:16

Wibby, for goodness sake, do they not read or watch the TV?

Whilst it is not nice to think about report neighbours. This is serious , why should they think the rules don’t apply to them?

Sophiasnana Fri 27-Mar-20 20:44:01

Fiachna50, I’m not exactly being a nosy neighbour spying on my neighbours! I am sitting reading next to my floor-to-ceiling window, so cannot help but notice when a neighbour drives past, especially as there should be hardly anyone driving past as we live in a cul-de-sac.

EllanVannin Fri 27-Mar-20 20:54:00

Wherever I was reading people were threatened with being shot if found outside.

Helennonotion Fri 27-Mar-20 21:05:35

A police commissioner has urged neighbours not to “snitch” on each other if they break new rules imposed after the coronavirus outbreak.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-oxfordshire-52022986

growstuff Fri 27-Mar-20 21:16:28

What he's suggesting is that people have the guts to address the issue themselves:

Anthony Stansfeld, police and crime commissioner for the Thames Valley, said people could politely express disapproval instead.

Callistemon Fri 27-Mar-20 21:38:25

I think when a farmer did that because hundreds of people were walking in the Peak District, he got badly beaten up.

Hetty58 Fri 27-Mar-20 21:46:21

I hope that people are reporting rule-breakers to the police and not just on here. No, it's not safe to openly 'express disapproval', anyway, we're staying indoors.

I feel perfectly justified in reporting (online or by ringing 101) those who are presenting a threat to my family members. Let's face it - they may be using the respirators that we'll be denied, soon, when demand exceeds supply.

Summerlove Sat 28-Mar-20 20:00:55

For those doing shopping for others, instead of being an “on call” service, I suggest you get the list weekly.

Once the shop is done, it’s done.

Going to the store so often is dangerous for us all right now.

As for some grans I know who “find it too hard to be away from grand children” and complain so much that the grand children are brought over, at the risk to all involved, I have no words. Pointlessly selfish

Pikachu Sat 28-Mar-20 20:50:32

Spying on neighbours? Reporting them to the police?

Labaik Sat 28-Mar-20 21:00:59

The sort of people that are breaking the rules are not worth accosting; our local police said it's best to avoid trouble. We do have a local facebook page where we can warn people about dangerous driving etc. Someone phoned me today and told me I HAD to post a message she was giving me through my next door neighbours letter box. I told her I was self isolating as much as possible and didn't want to do it. She got very irate. Thankfully I found my neighbours phone number and phoned them.

MawB Mon 30-Mar-20 10:49:22

The MP son of Neil Kinnock, the former Labour leader, has been publicly shamed by police for “non-essential” travel during the coronavirus lockdown after going to celebrate his father’s 78th birthday.
Stephen Kinnock, the MP for Aberavon in South Wales, posted a picture of himself sitting on a chair outside his parents’ London home, adhering to guidelines to stay two metres apart, as they marked the occasion with his wife, the former prime minister of Denmark, Helle Thorning-Schmidt.

Callistemon Mon 30-Mar-20 10:52:52

I think birthday celebrations will be courtesy of Facetime, WhatsApp etc this time for us.

But the Kinnocks obviously think that the rules don't apply to them now they have gone up in the world.

Callistemon Mon 30-Mar-20 10:54:43

Mr Kinnock Snr was also an EU Commissioner, so one of the elite.

Oopsminty Mon 30-Mar-20 10:55:08

For those doing shopping for others, instead of being an “on call” service, I suggest you get the list weekly.

My sister is a carer to old people in the area.

She visits about 10 or 11 during the week

She can't get all the shopping at once because there's a limit to how much she can purchase at one time

She got accosted by some woman the other day accusing her of panic buying

Not nice

B9exchange Mon 30-Mar-20 11:16:35

If you ring the police to complain that your neighbour has gone out more than once, they will take no action because they have more than enough to do with normal policing. You will have added unnecessary time to the telephone operator's workload when they could have been dealing with an actual crime. Please respect the Police Commissioner's advice .

Labaik Mon 30-Mar-20 20:19:09

A neighbour rang our doorbell today and my partner went to open the door. I just stood there screaming 'don't open the door; ask him what he wants from inside'. I then made him wash the doorbell with bleach.

Callistemon Mon 30-Mar-20 20:30:21

You won't be touching the doorbell, will you?

People tend to ring the bell and then retreat down the path if they want to speak to us.

quizqueen Mon 30-Mar-20 20:51:32

I'll tell you why people break the rules - because they read in the paper that hundreds of people a day are still flying on regular flights into Heathrow from places like China, New York and even Iran; the later 2 definitely still hotspots of infection. If the government can't be bothered to stop things like that, why shouldn't people think they can go out for a walk or in their car more than once a day!

Labaik Mon 30-Mar-20 21:39:36

He really was just behind the door and not moving. I still don't know what he wanted! I don't know who I'm most annoyed with; the neighbour or the fact that my partner was happy to open the door. He should have learned from when I went ballistic at him for letting someone stroke the dog the other week!

Summerlove Mon 30-Mar-20 21:51:05

Quizqueen, Those people who refuse to do what the rules say just because of something else happening sound pretty darn selfish to me.

WOODMOUSE49 Mon 30-Mar-20 22:22:17

Don't ring your local police numbe

Ring 101 . Advice from my MP (email). Police do want to know who is not following the guidelines.