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Hypocritical neighbours

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kangaroo73 Thu 07-May-20 20:31:27

My next door neighbours have had a continuous flow of guests today. I think it was somebody’s birthday. They’ve been in the garden drinking etc. Also they went outside to collect a gift from somebody and hugged them just about the time of clapping for the NHS. They had the audacity to join in with the clapping. Am I being a Grinch by being angry w it’s this hypocritical gesture?

quizqueen Mon 11-May-20 17:46:02

Well said, Oopsadaisy3, also far too much to say about Brexit when not even living and working here!

llizzie2 Mon 11-May-20 17:59:55

It is stupid and they are ignorant. I am disabled. I got up to go to work one morning and my legs gave way. I was diagnosed with GBS and the lumbar puncture showed it was a virus I caught. That was in 1987 and I was 46. I am still disabled. Over the years it went up my body from my feet. I was very ill indeed, and every year something was added. All through that time I was nursed and helped by my late husband. My sisters could not understand how someone could be walking one day and fighting for life the next. I think they are still sceptical. I do not know. I do not see them. They were not the only ones. How can you explain why you need a wheelchair? I try not to think about the horrid things I have had said and done to me, as though that will shame me into being whole again.
If your neighbours think the rules do not apply to them, it is their risk and so long as you stay away from them you will be safe.
Perhaps after this viruses will be treated seriously. Perhaps people with think twice about going into care homes, and ever retirement housing, especially flats. There is no NHS in care homes. They even pay for the local GP. Care home owners pay it and pass it to residents. All notes have DNR on them. When they are sick they do not receive treatment from qualified NHS nurses. Those who care for them - and who have not been given PPE - are trained to wash, dress, feed etc, and at the lowest pay. They do not know how to nurse in sickness and residents do not receive proper treatment for illnesses, nor do hospitals admit them. Now there must be questions as to whether care home owners are liable for the deaths for not supplying adequate protection for staff and residents.

GagaJo Mon 11-May-20 21:01:02

Oops, that was before lockdown. If you were stalking me 'watching my posts with interest' back then, you'd be fully aware of that.

Plus, go and try to intimidate someone else. That little clique you're in is pathetic. Careful I don't screen shot the private messages.

Oopsadaisy3 Mon 11-May-20 21:06:49

Gagajo screen shoot away, I have never PMd you and I don’t intend to.
Not sure what clique you are referring to as I don’t belong to one.
I just recognise hypocrisy when I see it, as to stalking you, you are a prolific poster, with many, many opinions that I read along with the other posters.

GagaJo Mon 11-May-20 21:24:24

And yet, I couldn't tell you in all honesty, what your last post was about (other than the one you've just addressed to me), yet you can recall mine from over 2 months ago. I really think you need other interests.

Oopsadaisy3 Mon 11-May-20 22:28:09

Please send me the screen shot of the PM that you have accused me of sending to you.

Skweek1 Sun 17-May-20 17:53:09

Our neigbours were running a business from their council house - initially drug dealing, then helium balloons and lately hot tub parties; they have obviously been stopped in their tracks - possibly by the council curtailing their activities - and now they're regularly inviting their BFF family across the road to come for drinks parties and the hot tub - most weekends they're there till after midnight. I guess things are better (at least we can now park outside our house!) but you'd think they would learn.