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Why are some men so anti doing as they are bid

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BlueBelle Sun 19-Dec-21 07:12:21

However I put this it’s going to sound sexist and it’s not at all, I had a wonderful father have a great son and lovely hard working sensible grandsons but …..
Listening to a radio ring in this morning it’s was basically all men ringing in saying I m not having the third injection (or
I m not having any injections or I m not carrying medical records) because I m not going to be told what to do!
When I watched the news last night of the demonstrations in London, it was all men screaming, shouting and threatening dreadful violence to the police what is it with some men is it the education status, is it their egos …... ?
I m not saying no women are acting so ridiculously but certainly this morning every ring in was a VERY belligerent sounding man
Don’t shoot me I m as far from a man hater as the moon is from me but it is a conversational observation

Dickens Mon 20-Dec-21 13:14:04

Suzey

Think there are as many women against it as men ,I'm one of them ,lots of women can't just go and protest as have family commitments

As you are one of the 'anti' demographic - can you tell us what it is that you object to?

I'm not being facetious - I'm genuinely interested.

Let me say that I'm not against anyone who feels qualms about forced vaccination, nor anyone who worries about the possible side effects of the vaccine. Though I admit I don't understand the resistance to wearing masks in overcrowded and unventilated areas, like public transport, etc.

I'm also aware that the way the government has / and is now / handling the crisis, leaves a lot to be desired, to put it mildly.

But in spite of this, I still don't understand the motivation behind the protests. Bearing in mind that this is a public health issue and the fate of our NHS, economy and people's lives depend on what action we do or don't take - can you explain?

Doodledog Mon 20-Dec-21 13:14:49

MaggsMcG

I respect people's rights to not be vaccinated. Along as they stay away from me and my family. As far as the passports are concerned each individual business can make their own rules at the moment. I would think that if restaurants and pubs want to stay open they may have to tow the line.

I agree, but the trouble is that there is not really a line to toe.

I would be much more likely to go to a venue that asked for proof of either vaccinations or a negative test result, but I don't know how they could set that up without a proper 'passport' set up. People can lie, and I'm not sure that I would believe everyone who said they'd tested negative.

GANNET Mon 20-Dec-21 13:38:54

Absolutely right!

EMMF1948 Mon 20-Dec-21 13:41:37

I think that the University of YouTube has a lot to answer for, many people seem to treat it as another gospel.

GANNET Mon 20-Dec-21 13:44:57

Absolutely right

coastalgran Mon 20-Dec-21 14:09:18

Empty vessels make the most noise is the saying. Maybe no-one listens to these men at home/work so this was their one and only opportunity and they latched on to it.

allule Mon 20-Dec-21 14:21:25

Perhaps they could reopen the nightingale hospitals; staff them with healthcare professionals who don’t want to be vaccinated, and will be unable to work; and use these for anti vaxers who contract the virus?
Presumably they’d be quite happy to be treated by unvaccinated staff.

grandtanteJE65 Mon 20-Dec-21 14:34:28

I think some of the point here is how things are phrased.

Surely no adult likes being TOLD to do something (most children don't either). A polite request works much better.

However, when it comes to controlling a pandemic and making sure that as few people as possible die of the disease, asking nicely doesn't do the trick.

If ASKED some will always say NO-

IMO governments everywhere should have made the vaccinations compulsory in the same way that smallpox vaccinations were compulsory for children starting school in most European countries, and the TB one was compulsory for adults working in any place with more than two or three adults.

School-teachers, nurses and doctors had to have an X-ray annually in Denmark until the mid 1980s to ensure that even although vaccinated they had not caught TB.

If there were people who for sound medical reasons could not be vaccinated, I presume they weren't, but I never heard of any.

Jehova's Witnesses who refused vaccinations had to work with each other, or be self-employed. Their constitutional right here to practise their religion has been held not to give them the right to place others at risk.

These rules applied in Denmark, and here there does not seem to be a difference along male-female lines regarding corona vaccinations and restrictions. It is much more along age lines. Teenagers and the 50+ are far more likely to say yes thank you to the vaccinations and to obey restrictions than the 20 to 50 group.

BlueRuby Mon 20-Dec-21 14:34:30

Anti-vaxxers?? Don't want to be told what to do?? Protecting your rights?? Not much freedom in being dead. Not much freedom for those you infect, who may also be dead.

jaylucy Mon 20-Dec-21 14:34:40

As far as vaccination is concerned, women , on the whole, seem to have an inbuilt way of thinking of others as well as theirselves whereas for many men, the world revolves just around them - possibly due to their mothers allowing them to get away with stuff that they never would for their daughters !
Last week there was a demonstration outside a new jail that is still in the process of being built, claiming that those that had not been vaccinated will be locked up in that jail and from the photos there were as many women as men in the demonstration!

Lupatria Mon 20-Dec-21 14:39:18

one of my grandaughters has pathelogical demand avoidance and has been diagnosed as autistic. she is hell to live with as she just will not do anything she is asked to do.

Bankhurst Mon 20-Dec-21 14:39:38

All laws are social coercion, but we abide by most of unthinkingly because they are for the good of society as a whole.

BlueRuby Mon 20-Dec-21 14:39:54

It makes me laugh when people say they don't know what's in the vaccine. These are often the same people who take "recreational drugs" - cocaine, ketamine, ecstasy, cannabis - but they only do it at the weekend - it doesn't really count does it!! Do they know what's in those drugs??? A great big fat NO! Get a grip!

Joesoap Mon 20-Dec-21 14:53:48

MEN what more can I say, they are obstinate from the minute they are born.
But do they spend their lives not doing what they are told or is it just the vaccination programme they object to, a thing which is saving lives, they might not be bothered about their own lives but why dont they think of others lives.Just get on with it and do as you are told for once, the shock might do them good.

Mummer Mon 20-Dec-21 14:55:29

Luckygirl3

Social control! The virus itself is pretty darned good at social control!!

Some people are fighting the wrong enemy.

Well said luckygirl 3 ! I'm gonna remember that saying, and it's oh so true too! Self promotion and protection seems to be missing the huge syringe in the room.... I really miss their point? I remember my mum hearting me" if she told you to stick your hand in the fire would you?!" After I said I'd jumped off a high wall cos my mate told me it was babyish not to! I really hurt my chin....on the ground....all that face saving and it nearly mangled mine!

Mummer Mon 20-Dec-21 14:57:12

# mum BERATING me!!!! Edit tool please!!?

Mummer Mon 20-Dec-21 14:58:49

Lupatria

one of my grandaughters has pathelogical demand avoidance and has been diagnosed as autistic. she is hell to live with as she just will not do anything she is asked to do.

How challenging! Does reverse psychology not work with her either?

Elvis58 Mon 20-Dec-21 15:29:24

Its all about government trying to keep the populace under control with project fear.Men just wont buy into it!

Pavane Mon 20-Dec-21 15:32:44

I am 84, had wonderful father, brother,husband. I have finally learned men are different from women and that’s ok. Women tend to compromise, men seem more to react. I learned to say ‘yes dear’ and go about what I wanted to do anyhow, and they do the same. They have an alarming reaction to four words we say to them. WE NEED TO TALK.

sodapop Mon 20-Dec-21 15:38:14

Oh dear Elvis I don't think your post will be well received on here. Not sure what you are trying to say exactly, men are more intelligent than women ? Men are more politically aware than women? Obviously they are more into conspiracy theories.

Bijou Mon 20-Dec-21 15:48:48

When I joined the WAAF during the war we all , men and women , had to line up to be vaccinated. A lot of the men fainted but no women.

Rosina Mon 20-Dec-21 16:06:10

Luckygirl that is an absolutely brilliant response - and I will repeat it as it makes sound sense.

Rosina Mon 20-Dec-21 16:09:39

Elvis - how, please? I'm truly interested in why you believe governments all over the world have joined together in a global conspiracy to subjugate populations. What is the 'fear' founded upon, and can you please tell me what you think millions of people have lost their life to over the past two years?

ExaltedWombat Mon 20-Dec-21 17:27:34

I see equal numbers of male and female vaccine refusers/COVID deniers. What I DO find more prevalent among women, particularly in later life, is what I can only describe as a weariness with reality, a desire to try Something Else, whether it's going overboard for 'alternative' therapies or immersion in a religion, mainstream or otherwise.

Silvertwigs Mon 20-Dec-21 17:29:50

Hear hear Luckygirl3!