Thank you everyone for the kind words and support. Felt really down with various cruddy things going on in my family and then the fibro flare up, but now feel much better, so thanks again.
Am very happy after weighing myself today. I have said before it depends on where I put the scales as to what my weight is - old Victorian house with aged dodgy floors - but since being weighed by the GP on Jan 17th I've lost either !st !lb, 1st 2lb or 1st 4lb. I'm going with 1st 4lbs!!!
Seems like I've been dieting forever but actually its not that long and still a long way to go. Aiming for another 2st 6lbs and I'll still be fatty fat fat but I'm a realist! I'll report what I am in about month so keep everything crossed for me please 
All the best to everyone 