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I’m a Pear/Apple - Part 5. Still going!!

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NanKate Tue 22-Oct-24 12:47:23

On 08 May 2018 I started this thread for those who wanted to lose weight and have a healthier lifestyle.

We now have a small band of ‘regulars’ called Pears and Apples. I am so grateful to those who have stayed loyal and contributed a lot of useful information and given support, especially Whiff 👍

Do join us, the rules are simple.

Choose your own style of diet plan.

Check in regularly with a report of the highs and lows of the diet.

Have an occasional binge but get back on the wagon ASAP.

Pass on any useful diet tips.

You have nothing to lose on this thread, other than weight.

Our mantra is - EAT LESS FOR LIFE.

Allsorts Mon 16-Dec-24 07:57:27

It might take a week to lose a pound but for me one day that and more can go on.
NanKate well done on losing half a stone, well done. I have keot to 1500 cals max, for weeks now but

I ate most of a fruit cake yesterday as was upset, annoyed with myself so today being extra strict.. Christmas day will be a challenge as well as I will indulge I know I will.
Whiff glad you feel bit better.

NanKate Wed 18-Dec-24 08:08:44

Hope you are feeling better Whiff. Please give us an update.

keepingquiet Wed 18-Dec-24 09:10:47

Yes, lots of colds going around- mine is in the lingering stage now whichis annoying.

Much to my surprise I mamagedto lose 1lb this week, and a little more off my waist. This was despite a three course trad turkey dinner and next to no walking!

For me I think this signals that my habits really are changing; little bread, occasional cake, no biscuits (they are the worst!) do due to my busy week ahead I'm not sticking to my planned meals but just having healthy choices and hopefully not too much over indulgence.

Hope everyone has a good week and isn't feeling too overwhelmed by it all.

NanKate Wed 18-Dec-24 09:53:41

Well done keepingquiet for losing a pound. I visualise a pound of butter when I have a loss. When I lost 5lbs I visualised a bag of potatoes. This helps me.

keepingquiet Wed 18-Dec-24 13:16:42

What helps me is the tape measure and my clothes being looser!

NanKate Sun 22-Dec-24 20:18:58

Here’s wishing all you Pears and Apples a Happy Christmas.

I intend to take 3 days off from my Diet. I won’t be going mad but just having a few extra treats and enjoying a Columbian Christmas Dinner cooked by my daughter in law.

We set off for the Brighton area tomorrow where my son and Family live. It will be ‘full on’ with 3 boys 2 eleven and 1 thirteen ! We come back next Friday. Fingers crossed that the M25 behaves itself both ways.

Have a great time whatever you are doing and I look forward to us regrouping in early 2025. 🎄☃️❄️😤🥧🍫🥂

Shirleyw Mon 23-Dec-24 04:10:54

Thank you nankate , wishing you and the fruits a lovely Christmas.
Colombian Christmas dinner, sounds lovely and different. Looking forward to hearing what you had.

Yes, 3 days off for me also, but with control….i hope. I’ve stayed the same this past week, (usually this time last year I’d of put on ) …we are at my daughters again this year, we are looking forward to it.

Stay safe everyone…

Whiff Mon 23-Dec-24 09:39:51

Put on 2lb but was expected . Only got back to exercising yesterday and have comfort eat this week. Don't laugh but it was on porridge and Weetabix not together. But used jam and plenty of sugar to sweeten it.

Back on the old routine untill Christmas day and boxing . Then high cal meal on news eve as having 2 friends for lunch a gluten free veggie but very cheesy lasagne and making full fat cheesecake my brother's recipe.

Have a wonderful time NanKate with your family and safe journey.

To to all the pears and other fruits have a wonderful Christmas and hopefully 2025 we will reach out goals 🤔🤣. Well I can but hope in my case .

🎄🥂🍾⛄🎁💞

CocoPops Tue 24-Dec-24 02:27:49

Wishing you all a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year . My son is over from the UK. He's brought his appetite!

Whiff Wed 25-Dec-24 05:36:38

CocoPops have a brilliant Christmas with your son . Bet his been looking forward to his mom's Christmas meal all year.

To everyone on here have a wonderful Christmas and eat drink and be merry . Always another day to think about getting rid of those pounds . 💝⛄🎄🥂

NanKate Wed 25-Dec-24 11:26:37

Well said Whiff.

Happy Christmas All 👋🎄

keepingquiet Fri 27-Dec-24 09:06:47

Hoping everyone had a good Christmas and are well and looking forward to a healthier 2025.

The day before Christmas Eve I found out I'd lost 4lbs in a week!

That is almost a stone gone now since October!

I haven't put any restrictions on for Christmas but haven't indulged in too much alcohol. No one bought me chocolates or biscuits either- which is a help.

Let's go forward to 2025 with hope for a healthier and lighter year!

Whiff Sat 28-Dec-24 06:38:06

Well my Christmas binge is over back on my usual eating routine until new year's eve when having 2 friends for lunch gluten free veggie lasagna but using more cheese than usual a mix if 3. And full fat cheese cake . One if my friends is gluten free and has osteoporosis so needs full fat. Making gluten free shortbread for the crumb base . Decorated with dark sour cherries and chocolate ganache .

Keepingquiet well done with the 4lbs . Expect my scales to say one at a time tomorrow 🤣

NanKate Sat 28-Dec-24 08:45:15

Morning All.

Well done keepingquiet keep at it.

I’m with you Whiff back on the wagon. I avoided all chocolate over the hols I must have had about 6 alcoholic drinks and thoroughly enjoyed them.

I will be weighing myself next Friday and will be hoping to lose this coming week what I put on over Xmas.

Of course I will have a brief break on NYE.

keepingquiet Sat 28-Dec-24 08:59:25

I don't intend getting weighed again until well past new year- what's the point?

I'm leaving it until then because I'm away for the New Year, but even if I put some on, which is almost inevitable, I know I can start again in January when the festivities are finished.

So happy new year everyone and have fun!

Shirleyw Sun 29-Dec-24 04:07:04

4lbs off is well good keepingquiet.

How was your Colombian Christmas dinner nankate?

As I’m a daily weigher, I went off track for just the 2 days and put on 1kg, but went straight back on track on 27th and it’s paid off as I now lost the kg I put on.

When does your son go back cocoapops?

Enjoy the new year with your friends whiff

Happy and healthy new year everyone.

CocoPops Sun 29-Dec-24 04:49:39

Well, my son developed a headcold a couple of days after arriving. He probably picked up a bug on the flight. His cold lasted 3 days. I caught it and it lasted 5 days. However we're OK now. Yesterday we went to see an annual exhibition of Gingerbread Houses. Photo of an unusual one we liked. Lots to see and do before he returns home on January 2nd. Needless to say I have not braved the scales but I will get back to healthy meals in the New Year!

madeleine45 Sun 29-Dec-24 07:12:20

Just seen this thread for the first time so have come to look and join in for now. So I am not in a "concentrate on weight loss " state at the moment, as will be revealed as you read on. But one of the things that makes it rather a vicious circle for me is that I have various health issues. That means I am aware of what is a good way to live regarding diet and exercise, but often cannot follow this. So I have cancer for a second time, this means treatment which affects both appetite and mobility. I have a very bad lower back, which I know how to manage, having this for many years., and have to adjust my exercise according to what it is being like at the time. At home , never lie flat, or stay in one position for a long time. Unfortunately I have to do that for the cancer treatment, and the so called bed is as hard as a table to lie on. So however well I cope with the treatment, my back complains bitterly for the next 3/4 days . I am a type 2 diabetic, on metformin but not injections.
So, in general , I eat a good mixed diet, majority of my food is from scratch, and exercise the best I can. I am getting less mobile so can no longer do the walking I used to. My best thing is I go swimming , as this is less painful, the pool has a hoist to put me in the water and get me out. So I try to do 20 to 30 lengths of a full size pool. Not all at one go, in the beginning it is very painful so do a couple of lengths , rest a little and then carry on doing about 4/6 lengths at a time . I go to a disabled session, which is once a week, then usually do 2/3 sessions per week. If I wake up in a lot of pain very early in the morning, I get up and get stuff together and then drive to their very early session so am usually in the water about 7am. At that time there is usually 2 or 3 groups of people. The intense group who have their counters on their wrist and charge up and down the pool without stopping, then get out and go off to work or whatever; the friends groups, who over the year I have discovered, are there through meeting at post operation physio, or met through being in hospital, and then another group vary in size as they all used to work for the same firm but are now retired. They use the swimming pool as a get together and encourage each other to lose a bit of weigth and exercise. One problem I find is that despite , or probably because, I have been in water, I am always very thirsty when I get out of the pool. So I sometimes come straight home, but other times go to cafe nero for a coffee. On the way there I go in the bakers and buy one fresh teacake , which I eat before i get to Nero's . Then I am not tempted to buy any food but the teacake lets me do a bit of shopping or whatever before I go and make some lunch. I am a widow and live alone, so in general I sort of run 2 jobs in parallel. One standing , and one sitting. I start one job, but when my backs gives me a lot of pain, change position and go to the other job. Frustrating, as I was always a "lets get one job finished properly before starting another" but learnt the hard way that saying I will just finish this, just causes me more pain. On a good day, when I am in the mood, I do some cooking, make a lovely shin beef stew, some curry and bolognaise sauce etc. Then I put individual portions up and freeze them. So on a bad day when I can hardly stand I have something that only needs reheating. Sorry to be going on , but I have to allow for all this when I am thinking of food etc. So the combination of being unable to run or walk far now, cannot stand in the kitchen for long times and the factor that I live alone, so no one to say what are you eating or whatever. So I hope to learn some good ideas from all of you, and when I feel out of inspiration , have somewhere to look for ideas. So that is me, I am 79, live in north yorkshire alone, and have just had a major disaster with a broken pipe behind the toilet and tiles which has meant total emptying of bathroom, sanitising and new bathroom fitted. Sounds lovely , which in the end it was, but nearly 11 weeks in a hotel, only got home on the friday before christmas day!! So, on the whole, with added hassle of no winter fuel payment, getting car MOT'ed which passed but needed new brakes and cost £345 You can see why I shall not be sorry to see the back of this year and hope to begin 2025 with a better attitude to exercise and good food.

keepingquiet Sun 29-Dec-24 07:57:34

Hi Madeleine45!

Sounds like you have a lot to deal with and despite it, have a busy life!

I am inspired by your determination to be well. I tried swimming when I first retired but gave it up (long story).

Although I am not diabetic I have been told several times that I am pre-diabetic but seemed unable to make any positive changes until recently.

It was getting back on the scales after a long time that made me determined I had to at least try to lose some.

I was a bit cynical but the diabetes UK web-site has lots of meal plans so I went for a mediterranean diet and I have lost almost a stone in two months. It really is working for me (although I know it may not be for some). I really needed to kick those bad habits I had developed over time and I think I seem to have succeeded- so far!

I hope you find lots of good tips and lots of support here- I know I have so would be great to hear about your progress!

NanKate Sun 29-Dec-24 08:38:09

shirleyw I don’t have time this morning to reply but will do so soon. In fact we had a Columbian Christmas Eve ceremony which was very moving, will tell you all about it tomorrow. Our almost daughter in law in fact cooked a traditional British Xmas dinner, which was fabulous.

Whiff Sun 29-Dec-24 11:24:23

Will read the thread probably as just finished my cuppa and need to get some jobs done . Braved the scales not as bad as expected 5.75 lbs on not as bad as yesterday I weighed 3lbs heavier but have been up a lot in the night to the loo. And on that thought I will leave you . I will be back 😄

NanKate Sun 29-Dec-24 19:54:16

madeleine45 you have a lot to contend with. However I’m pleased you are now safely back home.

Whiff I know as soon as all the festivities over You, like me will be back on track with our trusty Cals/Carbs book at our side.

Now as promised the Columbian Christmas Eve. M decided to cook a traditional British Xmas Dinner. In Columbia they celebrate Christmas on Christmas Eve. Here is a picture M took of the crib scene on top of the book case. Small tea lights were put on the Mantlepiece which were lit and we were all invited to make a wish and blow out a candle. Mine was said out loud and was for the War in Ukraine to stop. We then all gathered for a family hug. It was very moving and of course we realised many people do not have the opportunity to be with family at this time of year, so we were grateful for this.

NanKate Sun 29-Dec-24 19:56:18

Here’s the photo shirleyw

Whiff Mon 30-Dec-24 06:54:58

CocoPops sorry about your sons cold and spreading it around . But at least you are together and that's the main thing . Love the gingerbread clock some people are so clever . I know you will be sad when he has to leave but you are making happy memories even with a cold . Bet he is glad to have his mom's cooking again . Enjoy the rest of the holiday with him .

Should have said I was weeing not an upset tummy . 🤦🤣.

Shirley you lost that kilo quickly brilliant only wish I could lose what I put on as quickly as it goes on .

Madeleine welcome to the pears and assorted fruits. Wow you have a lot to cope with hope the cancer treatment works for you . Never worry about long posts as I ramble on about everything and anything. You are a woman who faces life head on and finds ways to make the world suit you not the other way round. Lot on here are like that me included. Had to find ways to do things but my way.

I have problems standing but it's not my back but my limbs . I wobble when I stand and get wobblier after 5 mins . My hands tremble all the time and my right is worse . I use a stick in my right hand when outside so my stick wobbles then have to move my feet to stay upright. Thinking about it can saying it's exercise 😂.

Glad the swimming helps you . I bulk cook my lunch time soup and stew type dinner enough for 6 meals each . But reheat my soup in the microwave but my dinner in the oven . I just leave the soup in a big plastic box in the fridge and portion my dinner into oven proof dishes and leave in the fridge and reheat in the oven . If I froze things I would forget to get them out 🤦.

NanKate made this a happy place to be and we talk about anything.

Sorry about your bathroom pipe etc. But hope with your new one you had kitted out to make it easier for you to use. I would be lost without my shower chair and handles in the shower rectangle and my ease toilet and grab rail on the wall. Plus the basin in the cupboard at waist high no bending because of my balance problems .

Why is it you never just have one thing at a time happen. The old saying things happens in 3's certainly happens to me .

NanKate even though I over ate I still looked up things in the book . So instead of 6 pieces of chocolate only had 3. Like you said it's brilliant having the pictures on plates plus the lists of cals etc for foods cooked and raw weight. I have told lot of people about it . That's a lovely thing to do making a wish. Mine would be do not judge people by their appearance as you don't know if they have a hidden disability or health problem.

Made my gluten free shortbread yesterday for the base of my cheesecake. I found making the shortbread using gluten free flour so much easier on my hands than normal flour and the spread and sugar cane to together quicker and easy to spread in the tin.

I used my usual shortbread recipe but altered it as I only had gluten free SR flour used that and it worked.
300g gluten free SR flour
100g granulated sugar
200g olive spread
Just squeeze together . Lightly greased a sq tin . Mix was easy to spread in the tin . Pricked it . Oven 180° 25 mins until golden brown. Left in tin and just cut it while hot once cold took out of the tin . If course had to test a piece . Will always use gluten free flour for shortbread it is delicious 😋.

My old recipe was
200g p flour
100g semolina
100g granulated sugar
200g olive spread.
But it was harder to mix and didn't spread as easily.

Never to old to learn new ways.

Have a brilliant new year everyone and hope in 2025 you can achieve everything you want out of life . 💕

Whiff Wed 01-Jan-25 07:02:50

Happy new year everyone health and happiness to you all. Hope you can achieve all you want but remember it's a marathon not a sprint.

Had friends to lunch yesterday gluten free veggie lasagna very heavy on cheese and made a gluten free shortbread for the base of a black cherry cheesecake full fat with topping of dark chocolate ganache. My friends took leftovers home so no naughty food in my home . Back to my normal eating routine.

Keep going pears and together will be getting through the year whatever size we are . Look forward to hearing about all your plans for holidays etc .

Keep on going my friends 🎇🥂