I thought theyd done away with 11+? IS this just for private school?or sometimes its a similar test used for grammar schools?either she sits it& passes,so she knows shes more clever than she thinks she is(so a confidence boost)or fails and knows her parents&grandparents love her anyway and can sort her out a decent school in their area where if shes clever anyway she gets put in 'higher sets' so it will pan out fine.Private schools maybe a different kettle of fish,so best encourage her no matter what outcome,but leave the descisions to her parents.One of my daughters sailed through grammar school exam,disliked her school yrs,came out with lots of A stars- her younger brother didnt sit test as he was more of a 'doing' child than acedemic- still had a good education,her even younger brother,more acedemic,sat test but "ran out of time"-(i think he engineered this so he could attend our religion school with his his older brother)but i didnt mind,at least he tried,so he too came out with A's,A stars&B's. from high school,went on to 6th form,what im saying is,it largely depends on each child individually,and how they are personally,both at learning,and ability.and the parents know each child best.they know what theyre capable of,or not.please try not to interfere,even her grandad,tempting i know,im a grandma too now,but parents really do have upper hand in this,im sure theyl love her regardless,and they only want whats best for her,so if she doesnt pass theyl sort her out somewhere else where she'l still learn,and be happy.(where she still will get end of year exams every year,and GCSE's and end of year 11,just like every other child.she'l be ok.