MiniMoon
I remember sitting the 11 plus and thinking that I'd done well. I was totally crestfallen when the results came and I hadn't passed. It was awful to feel a failure at 11. My mother tried to console me by saying that it would be better to be top of the class in the sec. mod., than bottom at the grammar school. She wasn't really very helpful as all my friends had passed and I had to make a whole set of new friends.
The worst part of it was that the girl I thought was my very best friend totally ignored me whenever we met in the small town where I lived.
It wasn't until I was an adult with a good career in nursing that my mother told me she had gone to ask the headmaster about my 11+ result.
Apparently, that year there had been more children passed than there were places at the grammar school. In another year I would have passed.
Same experience for me.
We moved regularly, not army but similar background, dad moved when told to. I did 5 junior, 3 high school places. No national curriculum so I did the Vikings and little else in history.
It was a dreadful thing to banish the majority as failures and give an excellent education the the few



