No Hithere. Don't tell me I am saying things in my posts that I'm not. Nice would be 'please don't send anything and respect our wish to be left alone'.
Your idea of a message "that is not nice" is my idea of a message that I wouldn't send to my worse enemy, and I don't see why you would think it necessary to post such a thing here, where there are GN's dealing with their decision to estrange their parents, and parents and GP's dealing with the fact they have been estranged.
What do you think would go well with coasters like this?