Yennifer -- Conflicts arise when people gas-light and pretend they are not doing it.
More conflict arises when people say things like, "I will always 'side' with..." based on their situation and when called on it/it is pointed out? More gas-lighting and rug-sweeping/denial from some.
The real conflict arises when some can see right through the same dysfunction we grew up with and they don't like it. I have no problem with seeing a bird floating on the water and quacking and calling it a duck. And if a duck doesn't want to be seen as such, perhaps it should stop fluffing its feathers, preening and quacking while floating on a pond and it won't get called a duck.
Happy Holidays to All.
Lack of public toilets in towns.