So I've been spending the last few evenings reading through the conversations here. I've noticed some things that I am curious about. Please forgive me if I muck up the abbreviations. Please don't think I mean any offence. It really is curiosity and thinking about how a lot of what I read here made me feel.
1. There seems to be a lot of distrust between EPs and EACs and animosity at times. Why is that?
2. Reconsiliations stories are seldom and don't seem to be very happy, trust doesn't seem to come back and there doesn't seem to be much effort to repair the rift with wider family. Why is that?
3. I've seen comments from some saying that there is no justification for estrangement, is that genuine or just anger talking?
4. There are a few EPs who seem genuinely empathetic towards EACs and vice versa but relationships here appear to break down over very small things and become irreparable. Why is that?
5. I feel a little sense of competition, like one scenario might be more painful than the other. Which do you think is more painful and why?
6. I've also noticed an underlying thread of "just get over it". Why is that?
No obligation to answer. Very sorry if I am being very nosy. I'd like to stay but I feel worried I will fall into some sort of trap if I don't understand the dynamic. Thank you.
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