Polly, it seems that now is not the time to change things, rather, accept the current situation for now.
Remain a friendly and happy mum, there in the background, willing to help if asked. She may well come back to you, later on.
The pain will be far less when you think of her as unwell, working through her own problems and adjusting to being a mother herself.
She feels unable to cope with any extra stress (like being a good, even average daughter) at this time. Therefore, she rejects the role - and you.
Never imagine that it is, in any way, your fault.
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic
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