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What are you doing for self care today?

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VioletSky Sat 04-Sept-21 19:20:24

I've been taking my medication on time. Seems simple but it's hard to remember to take care of myself sometimes.

I also ordered myself an electric blanket today. I struggle to get off to sleep at night with aches and pains and restless legs. A friend lent me one to try out. This is life changing!

halfpint1 Wed 08-Sept-21 13:02:09

Put some smart clothes on and had lunch with my daughter,
just the job.

MayBee70 Wed 08-Sept-21 15:23:10

I’ve just received one of those mats that you lie on that are all prickly. Supposed to get to all your acupressure points. It was thinking about Barefoot doctor that resulted in me buying one. I googled him and I reckon that’s why the advert popped up. I have a HUEL protein during every day and add freeze dried fruit eg blueberry, pineapple, papaya, broccoli, yoghurt, walnuts, banana, beetroot, green tea and golden paste. I’ve started adding chocolate to it so it gives me a chocolate fix and feels quite indulgent. I do my Paul McKenna hypnotism tape at night or if I need a daytime nap. Didn’t put voltarol on my dodgy knee so I can expose it to the sun.

Whitewavemark2 Wed 08-Sept-21 15:53:29

henetha

Hiding from the thunderstorms forecast for today. Staying home, all windows shut, curtains will be drawn at first sign. It's my one real phobia. sad

My mum had the same phobia. Phobias are real pains and control your behaviour which is damned annoying. She spent all day looking out of the window when thunder was forecast.

Aldom Wed 08-Sept-21 15:59:11

Well I've had a satisfying day catching up with garden and indoor jobs. I can relax now knowing they are done. In a very few minutes I'm off down the garden, into the shade to soak up some vitamin D whilst consuming a deliciously cold gin and tonic.

henetha Thu 09-Sept-21 11:19:02

Yes, that's right, Whitewave. I understand how your mum felt. It does control your life. Thunder makes me feel really ill, with a violent headache. Yesterday however, the promised storms didn't happen, not in this part of Devon anyway.
They are now threatened for today, so another day of hiding.

VioletSky Thu 09-Sept-21 11:21:24

I'm taking inspiration!

Nap after work for me. I'm getting too overtired to sleep in the evening

joannapiano Thu 09-Sept-21 11:22:58

Did all the ironing, while DH busy hoovering. Now having a sit down.

Caleo Thu 09-Sept-21 12:36:42

I made my coffee weaker than usual, and threw out a pack of withered mushrooms.

MayBee70 Thu 09-Sept-21 12:41:38

I used my new muscle mat last night and this morning and felt really energised (well, energised by my standards).

VioletSky Thu 09-Sept-21 15:18:09

I'm quite interested in the muscle mat Maybee That's the acupressure mat? Can you tell me a bit more?

I used to do a lot of yoga etc until I got ill with Graves. I've lost a lot of muscle and it's done damage to my joints. I'm feeling a lot better in myself with treatment, most of my symptoms have gone except I still stutter and my joints are awful. No strength in them, always clicking and grinding. I've got a long wait for hospital at the moment to look into it properly. Trying to find at home help for myself.

Hetty58 Thu 09-Sept-21 15:37:47

Self care, for me, is making sure I have at least one, and usually two, long walks every day. Having an active dog really helps with that. I feel so much fitter (and calmer) when I spend time outside.

I really need a sense of purpose and achievement too, so I do a little 'work' daily (maybe just an hour) before indulging in hobbies. I'll bargain with myself 'Clean one window and then read that book!'.

I treat myself too. Yesterday, two ice lollies (it was hot), today I'm making peanut butter almond cookies - all healthy stuff, apart from the maple syrup. Maybe I'll make half a batch, as I'm bound to eat them all.

GillT57 Thu 09-Sept-21 15:50:14

Just booked myself a pedicure.

MayBee70 Thu 09-Sept-21 16:10:34

VioletSky

I'm quite interested in the muscle mat Maybee That's the acupressure mat? Can you tell me a bit more?

I used to do a lot of yoga etc until I got ill with Graves. I've lost a lot of muscle and it's done damage to my joints. I'm feeling a lot better in myself with treatment, most of my symptoms have gone except I still stutter and my joints are awful. No strength in them, always clicking and grinding. I've got a long wait for hospital at the moment to look into it properly. Trying to find at home help for myself.

I’ve never had any done but I’ve always been interested in acupuncture etc. The more expensive mats can be bought in different degrees of prickliness so I don’t know if the muscle mat is severe or moderate. I lay on it on the floor wearing a t shirt and nodded off . I then put it on the bed and tried it without a t shirt, did a relaxation tape and, again nodded off. It did make my skin go really red and I do have sensitive skin so I was a bit worried but the redness went away. The more expensive one is longer and you have to pay more for the pillow. Put it this way, I’m pleased that I bought and it might just be a bit of a placebo effect but I do feel quite good after using it. I think I’ve lost a lot of muscle since I stopped going to the gym because of covid. I did do plenty of walking but that doesn’t really develop muscle. It really is very prickly, though!

Shelbel Thu 09-Sept-21 16:14:25

I'm enjoying what looks like our next door neighbours in the process of moving out. They have really been a pain and won't be missed by anyone in the cul-de-sac. Other than that im just chilling out of the sun. Very hot here atm but rain is on its way.

VioletSky Thu 09-Sept-21 16:52:28

Maybee thank you! Very interesting

Madgran77 Thu 09-Sept-21 17:52:26

Maybee70 I am wondering about buying a Muscle Mat. There is such a huge range in price though and trying to decide whether it is worth paying more or not. As you say you are unsure whether yours is moderate or severe I assume you did not buy the more expensive one, more a basic set ...which from what you describe appears to be working for you? I am thinking of getting one to try!

Like you I do a lot of walking (also cycling) but muscle building exercise doesn't happen so much really!

Smileless2012 Thu 09-Sept-21 18:16:48

A muscle mat, that sounds interesting. You'll have to let me know what you go for and how it's working out. You can be my guinea pig Madgrangrin.

I do do muscle building exercises with free weights which I really enjoy. It's funny how regular exercising makes you feel more energised but it does.

Madgran77 Thu 09-Sept-21 18:34:09

What weight do you use Smileless Thinking of buying some of those too!

Smileless2012 Thu 09-Sept-21 19:43:50

I use dumb bell bars so I can increase/decrease he weight depending on the exercise I'm doing. The bars without adding weights are quite weighty if you know what I mean.

I suggest you get some dumb bells in incremental weights starting with the lightest. They're more comfortable to hold if you're not used to them.

You can use cans of baked beans for example or bottles of water which might be a good idea to begin with so you don't end up spending money until you're sure you like working with them.

MayBee70 Thu 09-Sept-21 19:58:39

Madgran77

Maybee70 I am wondering about buying a Muscle Mat. There is such a huge range in price though and trying to decide whether it is worth paying more or not. As you say you are unsure whether yours is moderate or severe I assume you did not buy the more expensive one, more a basic set ...which from what you describe appears to be working for you? I am thinking of getting one to try!

Like you I do a lot of walking (also cycling) but muscle building exercise doesn't happen so much really!

The Shakti mat seems to be the most expensive but it’s longer than the cheaper ones. And you have to buy the pillow separately. I haven’t really used the pillow yet because my back is a bit curved and I’m trying to lie flat on my back. I bought The Muscle Mat. It was £35 which was delivered 2 days later. I saw one much cheaper but you had to sign up to something and it sounded a bit fishy. I bet they all come from the same manufacturer. I’ve just peeled myself off it having fallen asleep again. I’m going to try using it as a back rest when I’m watching telly but will obviously be wearing clothes then!

Smileless2012 Thu 09-Sept-21 20:20:05

"I've just peeled myself off it" ooh I'm not sure if I want one now or not MayBeehmm.

MayBee70 Thu 09-Sept-21 20:22:37

It is like lying on a cheese grater….

Smileless2012 Thu 09-Sept-21 20:24:34

and yet you fell asleep on itshock

Madgran77 Thu 09-Sept-21 21:09:06

Lying on a cheese grater sounds like fun!!!??

3dognight Thu 09-Sept-21 21:19:28

I cannot believe you can fall asleep on it shock