My father died in December. I was not told by the Twisted Sisters like they had said they would. To be honest I knew they wouldn't. My son told me. I wasn't asked about flowers or any arrangements etc, but I expected that too. I didn't go to the funeral and couldn't travel anyway because of Covid. (I live in EU). I did send a condolences card to my Estranged mother. I thought I should but now I question if that was worth bothering with.
Aside from that are my feelings. I haven't cried or had strong feelings about it. I'm just sad that he couldn't have been a better father, had been honest or actually apologised. There's no chance of any resolution now and that's hard to live with. I have the same to go through when Estranged mother dies.
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