Should I send my estranged daughter a birthday card …

Maybe daughters partner just felt awkward or embarassed.

But definitely a good thing if you feel a bit stronger

Smileless2012

You don't have to apologise for what you've posted Dibbydod, please don't think that you do.

FWIW I think it's good that you now feel you have to put the whole experience behind you, despite the unpleasant incident that brought you to that conclusion.

Sometimes we need to be angry to find the strength and the courage to do what must be done.

From 'Dead Babies and Seaside Towns' by Alice Jolly
"All who live should rage. People who are angry get up int the morning, people who are sad sometimes don't."

Thank you smileless 2012 I agree with what you say . I’ll sleep on it , tomorrows another day .

Thanks.

I would do as Maw says but might write even less.
A card with "daughter" on - or words/poems would be a no-no (and arguably triggering).

I'd probably just say "thinking of you, love, Mum"

I would do as Maw suggested and send an ordinary card.

You never know, one day something might happen in her life to make her realize how much she is missing out. Don't give up. This rejection must be very hard to bear.

Chewbacca

Maw's suggestion sounds perfect; shows you're thinking of her but putting no pressure on.

I agree. Tbh my heart goes out to all families finding themselves is this situation, whether there is blame or fault, it’s heartbreaking.

I am deeply sorry that you are so missing your daughter but you are fortunate that have a family and friends. Cherish the ones that you can.
I hope you are finding love and peace elsewhere.

StTrinians

Thanks.

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Oh thank you.

I suppose it will still help someone.
Fingers crossed!

Third Zombie Thread today.