Allsorts
The person doing the estrangement holds all the cards. Some one said their mil was rude and overbearing so never saw her again, did they try ever try discussing it and how she could alter her ways. They might well have done several times I dont know. I have found a few dil's are jealous of the love their husband feel for his mother and once a wife they wont share. We raise sons, with our values and ways, they fall for that man, mil is history. Eventually son and children realise this. My Dil is not like that, she is closer to her own family but is loving to me. I never knew why my d estranged me, but now I do now. People hate you because they see you as a threat, want to be you or are jealous of you.
Well, I estranged my MIL, and I had no feelings about her relationship with my ex. It was what it was, She wasn't overbearing with the kids, never wanted to babysit or anything.
But, she did keep telling my toddlers that their Dad wasn't their dad (he was lol), and teaching them to swear etc.
Not good, the nursery were going nuts....🙄
It just got too much, although I did try for 7 years, and it was just about protecting the children.
I wish it could have been different, but it wasn't.🙁
I never regretted walking away though.