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always wanted but am i too old

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labazs1964 Sun 25-Nov-18 14:40:12

when i was a child dad always bought me fun fur teddy bear type coats for xmas. for over 30 years i have said i would love a teddy bear coat to keep me cosy as i suffer in the winter. well the other day i found one in size 16 which is my new size as i used to be 24 size its a cream colour bit of cross between citizen smiths coat and fun fur oh its gorgeous partner says he is not ashamed to go out with me in it thats just fun he doesnt mind at all he encourages me to dye my hair colour i want etc but i cant help but think am i too old for this gorgeous coat im 54

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annodomini Sat 25-Jan-20 22:50:12

OP, did you buy that lovely coat? I do hope so.

Ealdemodor Sat 25-Jan-20 21:56:56

Too old!? Hells bells, I wish I was 54 again!

Nortsat46 Mon 20-Jan-20 16:45:53

Hope you bought the coat, labazs and we all want to see a photo of you in it.

However, I am still laughing (and puzzling) about the ladies in refrigerators at the wedding ...
Help me out someone ... what was going on at the wedding?

Patsy70 Sun 19-Jan-20 20:56:40

Did you buy and wear it, labazs1964?

love0c Sun 08-Dec-19 16:46:08

54?!?! no age at all!!!!! Wear it and enjoy it. I love bikinis and intend wearing them until I am 100, at least!! smile

BBbevan Sun 08-Dec-19 15:47:38

Just buy it. Life is too short to deny yourself something you have always wanted. I bet you will look fabulous in it and get loads of compliments. And your Dad will be smiling up above

TrendyNannie6 Sun 08-Dec-19 14:08:02

Of course you should buy it, Goodness Me! I wouldn’t be asking you are 54 although actually I don’t think age comes into it, you’ve wanted one for 30 years. Well you go girl off to buy it and I hope it’s still available, if not order yourself one, and what’s more well done on your weight loss . You must feel fantastic x

jannxxx Fri 01-Nov-19 12:49:05

never to old

Sara65 Sat 27-Apr-19 07:48:09

Goodness, I agree with all the above BUY THE COAT!
You are in the prime of life, live it!

jeanie99 Fri 26-Apr-19 23:23:01

What's it like to be 54.
I can but only dream of days gone by.
Get to the shop young lady and buy that there coat.

FarNorth Sat 13-Apr-19 01:36:17

And very nice you look too, BradfordLass72!

BradfordLass72 Sat 13-Apr-19 00:51:51

I hope the OP got one too, anyone know?

Ailsa43 Here you go! Furry, cosy coat.

crazyH Sat 13-Apr-19 00:33:31

Btw....go for it !!

crazyH Sat 13-Apr-19 00:33:03

Teddy bear coat, I presume is a coat with either faux black or brown fur ....am I right?

Ailsa43 Sat 13-Apr-19 00:20:18

Am I the only one who doesn't know what a Teddy Bear coat is? Anyone willing to post a picture, please..

gransal Fri 12-Apr-19 23:11:40

I hope you bought that coat !!!!!!! 54, wear what you like. Post a photo if you did buy it and if not why not!

leyla Fri 12-Apr-19 22:46:41

For goodness sake woman you are 54, not 104!!! Go and buy it immediately.

Jaye53 Fri 12-Apr-19 22:44:09

Ladies in refrigerators? Lol

travelsafar Sun 03-Mar-19 14:16:00

They had a lovely one of these coats in NEXT when i was shopping with my daughter and we both fell in love with it but didnt buy as neither of us thought it would suit.But if you have wear it just wish i had the courage to.

trisher Sun 03-Mar-19 13:46:40

Oh go for it! You're just young! BUT if you don't please could you post where you saw it? I've been looking at them but haven't seen one in a colour or length I liked. Mouldy green, mustard yellow and puce are not colours I go for. Yours sounds lovely! grin

annodomini Sun 03-Mar-19 13:07:04

54,OP? that's not too old for anything! I must confess to hankering after a teddy bear coat, but the one I tried on made me look more like a polar bear. Possibly a darker colour would have been more appropriate for me.
You are 24 years younger than me. I hope you buy it and enjoy it for years to come.

grandtanteJE65 Sun 03-Mar-19 12:49:04

I've always wanted one of those shiny black raincoats that were fashionable in 1970 and which my mother said were vulgar. I could make do with a scarlet one, if black doesn't turn up soon in the charity shops.

Surely one of the perks of growing older is that we can wear what we want?

luluaugust Mon 14-Jan-19 10:34:56

I hope you did buy it