nangran you have to get past this feeling about the word. Many children these days have a gang of grandparents and step grandparents not to mention great grandparents - gran, grannie, nan, nana - there are plenty of names to go round.
What's in a name, a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.
I think the truth is that some young women have not worked through their love/hate feelings about their own mother and reached a comfortable adult place
And they may find it easier relating to a mother in law or step mother or sister in law who is just that one step removed and is not needing anything from them.
I can think of a number of examples that I know.
It is miserable having a close relative refuse to communicate with you - I am currently in that position myself - and it dawned on me that that person is probably enjoying a certain feeling of power at the moment.
All one can do is try to deal with ones own feelings - anger, hurt, indignation etc are all going to be barriers to a possible reconciliation.
Mysterious hole - help please!
Son’s girlfriend diagnosed with BPD
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic