I'm no expert in the development of young children-far from it- but it's my understanding that children do not socialise in any meaningful sense until they are 3 or 4 years old. I believe too that "learning" at this age is meaningless. The child is still practically a baby fgs!
Many of us have undertaken activities with our little charges; I took dd to a lovely little music group (sobs nostalgically) but it was for MY benefit, not dd's. It was something to do, to get out of the house, to meet people, to give structure to the day in between naps and meals.
I think what's most worrying about your situation, OP, is the lack of respect your daughter seems to have for you. Not only have you brought up children yourself, but you have also had a long and successful career as a teacher of other people's children. Not only does your daughter appear to have no respect for that, but she doesn't seem to give a jot about your wellbeing either.
I'm sorry but she sounds utterly deluded and selfish. She's going to have one heck of a shock when the LO starts school.
When a political leader lies on their CV - can you trust them?
