So glad they are now home and you have so much joy before you all.
In time, I think your DD will benefit from talking through the birth scenario with you - and likely, with other mums too as sadly there are many who seem to have a traumatic time that is a complete departure from their birth plan. Talking will help process the trauma. I worried that my own DD would be vulnerable to post-natal depression because of her experiences, but she has been fine as was I - a listening ear and a shed load of empathy make all the difference.
And now the love affair begins ...
New house and a sloping garden