marylane it is very sad to be taken for granted. In the wee small hours I was reading a back issue of 'Grace' magazine, the Summer 2007 issue and I quote,
"Have you observed how today, few people use the phrases 'please' and 'Thank You', which at one time were signs of common courtesy? We used them to express thanks for a courtesy shown. You, too, may be sorry the expression no longer appears in everyday conversation. From an old scrapbook I note " Hearts, like doors, will open with ease, to very, very little keys, and don't forget that two of these ..... are 'I thank you' and 'If you please.'
We have so many things for which to be thankful: for flowers, work and play, love of family and all that goes to make up our day.
"Thank you" means that someone shared
Someone loved and someone cared
It means that someone had a part
In lightening someone else's heart"
Anonymous "
I have nieces and a nephew who no longer sent me a little thank you note so on each of their birthdays I sent a small card with a note to say that I had noiced that my little gifts were not really appreciated anymore so I was writing to ask which of the following they would like to be donated in their name to a needy family and if I had no response I would choose something I thought would be appropriate. They didn't and so I did .... and after no response to that then the foĺlowing Christmas I am now happy that there is a village in Nepal who have a flushing toilet. I could not do anything about their lack of manners so I changed my response.
You could do something similar and there are many things to choose from.