Previous posters are probably correct but I do have reason to suggest there could be more to it. Do you and your DD get on? Is she in any way jealous of you? I am close to a situation where the mother grilled the children after they had been with another relative, to a huge extent and so bad that the SW told her to stop but she didn't. She also threatened the children if they told things to the relation. The result was that, after her open hatred about the relative the children started telling her what she wanted to hear. I hope this is not the case but we have seen so many cases of controlling DDs and DiLs on here that it is possible there is more to this.
Bought the wrong Hot Cross Buns 😩
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Being moved along by someone who "wants your place".