4 year old grandson lying

"The problem here is that your daughter seems to be believing his stories. Why would she? Do you have a problem between you?"

Good question! What's the issue-behind-the-issue, Asterix?

"I would just like to add a child if 4 does not use the words ‘force fed’ so again that is either an interpretation by the mother or even by the poster herself"

... or someone's "feeding" him these words. What's really going on here, Asterix (if you ever come back)?

I'm replying to inishowen. I was going to stat a new thread but found this very reassuring one! I have never NEVER hit my almost 4 GD with whom I have a close and loving relationship, but in the middle of a restaurant she loudly and laughingly said to her sister "Grandma hit me!" Her sister (2.5 and copies everything her big sister does) said "Grandma bit me!" I was horrified and said it was very bad to tell lies especially about other people, but I've fretted ever since that she might have repeated this to someone else.