Son traumatised

I would just say that his mother loves him.

Has it occurred to you that he might be looking for a MR Right?

Didn't think of that, did yer.

I do not expect my son to find a Mrs Right!!! In fact, I very much doubt it.

Great! His options are still open to your generation right? But I'm sure Mrs. Right has to be in at least one generation Gonegirl. And if he can't find Mrs. Right in any generation, then maybe he's just Mr. Wrong.

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I stray into capitals when I'm enjoying myself.

Again - RTFT. I've aLREADY SAid my kids were born anyone thought about snowflakes.

Are you in pain with all this "Awww" business?

Nah! More with the "snowflake generation," that you raised from your "fashionable family."

I do not expect my son to find a Mrs Right!!! In fact, I very much doubt it.

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Btw I think my adult children might have been a little bit after the so called "snowflake generation". Just a little bit.

missed of these - ww

Are you in pain with all this "Awww" business?

LiveLaughLaove stuff it where the sun don't shine.

Awwwww the reality does hurts doesn't it? Such mature commentary from a "gran." You sure you're not from the "snowflake generation?" Or did such shallow comments originate from the "fashionable families," generation?

You sure don't sound like a "Mrs. Right," either, but somehow expect for your son to find one.

LiveLaughLaove stuff it where the sun don't shine.

I understand a difficult a very hazardous birth could affect the parents.
I have not had such an experience but 2C sections.

I am sure the parents will be worrying for quite a time and feel that what was supposed to me a happy experience did not turn out how you would have wished.

I was warned in advance that I might need one.
I still felt I was slightly upset that I had "failed".

I had out with two very healthy babies in two years.

Beware of those who particularly in the late 1970s were strongly preaching that women should be able to give birth finish the weaving and go straight back to work , so to speak.

Won't bother answering the other nasty stuff.

Pfffttt!!!! But wasn't that your idea on "fashionable families? " - Or are you refusing to comment on a Snowflake generation that you're responsible for raising?

But glad to hear that he's not living under your roof. That will hopefully allow for him to find the "right girl," from this "snowflake generation," and start a "fashionable family."

Ah bless her I’ll never forget all that.

Just when you think you can’t lose anymore of your dignity you have a whole new bunch of people overly interested in your bowels. The wonders of child birth

Happy Birthday OP. Hope you have a lovely day.

Enjoying it B9exchange.

Yes, hope they're home soon.

I am hoping that too, but certain functions have to start working again, if you get my drift!

It would be the best birthday present tomorrow to know that they were safely back home, even if they are not up to visitors yet. Fingers crossed!

Hope everyone is doing well and that they finally get to go home today!

BradfordLass you have made my day, thank you so much! ????

I can't believe you lot are still going!

I think this was a red flag for me from OP’s message:

“We waited for more news. after 20 hours with no contact, and no reply to text and phone call ignored, I was starting to worry.”

That’s a pretty long time to wait when you think about it. Jeez. Poor grandma must’ve been frantic worrying about all.

I don't have a DIL. RTFT (as they seem to now say over at the Other Place)

My son is certainly not living under my roof! He left home years ago.

Won't bother answering the other nasty stuff.

Have loving families gone out of fashion?

Didn't know it was fashionable to run to the hospital unannounced, unexpected and uninvited, just to impose your will on others and forcefully see another woman's daughter give birth. Is that your definition of "fashionable families? "

I'm not supporting this lot. That's for sure.

It's clear that your not. You don't have to announce it.