I’ve had my grandkids with me for a year and 1/2 now. My son lost them due to neglect and their mother is a drug addict. I had hoped my son would get it together and take over their care. It looked like he was doing that last year but then now he’s disappeared. The state is going to take away his parental rights now and is asking if we could adopt them.
I love them so much but I can’t handle the younger one. He was exposed to drugs and is a wildfire crazy little boy. My sister is willing to adopt him and she’s more capable than me to handle him. I’d adopt the older one. But I’m wrecked with guilt for splitting them up. I don’t know what to do.
I’m so mad at my son for not being here for his kids. I honestly don’t see myself forgiving him as he’s highly capable of caring for them but he just won’t.
Do you think it’s selfish to only adopt one?
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