I had my first gorgeous gs 3 weeks ago. Of course he’s adorable but I would say that ? my problem is that I’m paternal nanny and I’m feeling a little left on the side lines.
I had prepared myself for the fact that maternal grandparents would play a much bigger role than me but I wasn’t prepared for the overwhelming love I feel for my gs.
When my dil was released from hospital all grandparents were invited round to see them all and welcome gorgeous gs which was fabulous. Since then however the only time I’ve seen my gs is if I’ve asked them. I’ve offered help which has always been politely turned down - I’ve messaged every night just to see how they all are - most of my messages have been ignored. When I do get to see him my son and dil are always lovely but I’m feeling very sidelined at the moment. They are already in a routine with dil’s parents going up to their house - which I was expecting but didn’t realise how much that would upset me. My husband says it’s early days (he’s stepgrandad) and to let them get settled but they already settled around dil’s parents!
Am I over reacting? ??
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