My DiL watches over every minute of my infrequent, awkward visits. My grandson often looks her way before speaking as if he needs approval for what to say. He's not sure what he is allowed to tell Nana. Its so obvious. My DiL has become very almost overbearing with my GS constantly seeking his attention away from me while i'm visiting asking for hugs and kisses, showering him with affection and attention. Of course he loves it and has become a bit of a mama's boy during the time I've been restricted from him. To the point that he adores Disney princesses and everything related. He is 5 years old and all he asked for Christmas were princess castles, gowns and the like which is what he received. For the record I don't care if boys play with dolls and I don't care if my GS one day decides to identify as another gender, or whether he is a blue collar heavy equipment operator or a ballet star. I wouldn't love him any more or less based on any of that. I guess my point is just the over bearing-ness vibe I get from her.