Big big mistake my friend if you go along with it to keep your wife happy or because you don’t want to rock the boat with her you are really really going down the wrong route
As for bringing your ex wife into it this, it is growing now and in the wrong direction, is she the child’s grandmother and does she visit him ? If you ve had to tell her all about it then probably not
What are these more pressing things that your wife feels you are playing down ?
The parents both work hard ✔️
They go out a lot (every two weeks !!! Really a lot )
The child’s eats chicken nuggets etc instead of meat and two veg
They don’t sit down to eat together … doesn’t often happen in working families
He misses the toilet normal at 4 he’s too interested in what he’s doing to bother then rushes and gets caught out
Too many cats, their choice nothing to do with you
He wants to be with you more than your wife…. I think I would too she sounds jealous and this sounds like the crutch of it all
You asked our opinion and it’s quite rare for everyone to agree and this time everyone has given you the same advice BECAUSE we are looking in and not trying to keep your wife happy
Say nothing if you are wise if you do talk to them expect a coldness to descend and probably less contact or no contact with your happy little fella
BE VERY CAREFUL
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