Hello, I'm very new to this and rather out of my comfort zone. Our DD is moving to Australia next month (2 weeks before Christmas) with DGS DGD aged 11 and 8 and SIL. We are absolutely devastated at them going, we have cared for them a day every week since they were born. Lockdown was terrible for our DD who was classed as vulnerable due to chronic asthma, so didn't venture out for weeks. Worked from home with a very stressful job. with 2 kids at home and SiL working out of the home each day. She was then made redundant and has decided to move to Australia. I quite understand why they want to go. But I'm just broken, I have been on antidepressants for some time and they stop the tears and over thinking. We have spent the last year making great memories with the kids. But the thought of a future without them in it seems so dire. Everyone just says 'oh you will be able to have some lovely holidays' with them. I want to shout 'I don't want a B holiday with them' Does this sound irrational? I would never ever stop them going and should be very proud that we have raised a wonderful independent daughter. But not seeing our 2 amazing grandkids is breaking my heart. My husband feels the same but is much more under control emotionally than me. I'm typing this with tears pouring down my cheeks. I have a very active life and evil sense of humour and lots of friends, who are very supportive, and I can put on a brave face when needed. I'm hoping that someone may just have the right words to give me relief and to get me over this hurdle...... Please don't suggest the trip to see them!!!! I know we will in time as it will be good to see where they lay their heads at night and possibly sooner rather than later, as it may be a wonderful experience. Thank you for reading this
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