Grandson visit with girlfriend

I think it's very flattering that your grandson wants to bring his girlfriend to meet you. You must have a very trusting relationship together 🥰

An amusing tale on a slightly different slant:
My brother-in-law at 22 wanted to bring a girlfriend home and stay the night. Mother-in-law refused outright to allow it.

Fast forward a few years: mother-in-law and father-in-law had got divorced, she had a new partner (not married) and was going to stay at brother-in-law's house for the weekend.
He put them in separate bedrooms. She wasn't amused 🤣

Lol V3ra

It is of course illegal for a 16 yr old to have sex with a 15 yr old.

He wouldn’t want to be accuse of rape and you wouldn’t want it to happen at your home.

If You aren’t comfortable with it don’t do it 🙂🧡

I would be happy for them to visit and stay over but it would be separate bedrooms, they may well be sexually active but not under my roof at that age.

Katie59

I would be happy for them to visit and stay over but it would be separate bedrooms, they may well be sexually active but not under my roof at that age.

Which is exactly what the boy had said in the first place.

This was sorted out several pages ago

Doodledog

This was sorted out several pages ago

And so much mistrust for young people who appear to be acting responsibly.

Hithere

Cornflakes... you have to be kidding me
So she is restricted in the room no matter what?

Wow, just wow

98.5% sure it was a joke

I wouldn't be happy about it .

Aged 15 is too young .

But , perhaps they are already sexually active ?

I'm told by my three young neighbours that 13 is becoming the norm !

Listening to girls on the bus talking about sex - it seems to me that they know all about it at an early age .

They are guests in your house and if you are not happy - it's best to say so upfront before the nighttime shenanigans commence !

V3ra

I think it's very flattering that your grandson wants to bring his girlfriend to meet you. You must have a very trusting relationship together 🥰

An amusing tale on a slightly different slant:
My brother-in-law at 22 wanted to bring a girlfriend home and stay the night. Mother-in-law refused outright to allow it.

Fast forward a few years: mother-in-law and father-in-law had got divorced, she had a new partner (not married) and was going to stay at brother-in-law's house for the weekend.
He put them in separate bedrooms. She wasn't amused 🤣

My grandsons and granddaughter, together with partners, often crash here, and I've got no problems. Teenagers do what they do, and always have (thinking back to my misspent yoof 🤐lol).

But, I would draw the line if it's underage - I don't need all that hassle if it goes wrong.

I am gobsmacked that anyone might have thought the cornflakes post was serious!!!!

Phew

Aged 15 is too young

Too young for what?

Luckygirl3

You could always strew cornflakes outside the gf's door each night - that would do it! - crunch, crunch, crunch!

I thought it was so funny, anyway, Luckygirl 😁

How strange that some people took it literally 🤔

Luckygirl3

You could always strew cornflakes outside the gf's door each night - that would do it! - crunch, crunch, crunch!

You'd definitely have to hold crunch talks with the couple if it came to this!

Too young for sex - I nearly wrote tiddlywinks !

Love it Luckygirl13! As I don’t think that DH’s Bran has the same crunch I have put large pack of cornflakes on my shopping list! Less messy than a pail of water over the door - and I might forget it was there!
Seriously though, I feel more comfortable now about their visit. DD has reassured us and that is all we need.

Relax and enjoy their company. Hope it goes really well.

Enjoy your time with your grandson and his girlfriend. Blimey O'Riley, what a load of suspicious grans on here. Would any young person, with clearly not old fogie parents, choose to go on a sexual rampage in their grandparents' house? Just enjoy their company. I'm truly staggered by the venom about 'sex', especially as it won't be happening! 🤣

Yes!

Anneeba

Enjoy your time with your grandson and his girlfriend. Blimey O'Riley, what a load of suspicious grans on here. Would any young person, with clearly not old fogie parents, choose to go on a sexual rampage in their grandparents' house? Just enjoy their company. I'm truly staggered by the venom about 'sex', especially as it won't be happening! 🤣

Would any young person, with clearly not old fogie parents, choose to go on a sexual rampage in their grandparents' house!

That made me laugh! 😂
Indeed!

If both sets of parents are ok with it, then presumably they have had the contraceptive chat. If they haven't, then I'm not sure it's your place to do so. Having said that, it comes down to whether you trust your grandson, 16 year old boys being what they are, and whether you are comfortable with the situation. If not, it's your house, so your rules. You are not being unreasonable, especially given their ages.