My step daughter & her husband have 4 girls, triplets 6 yrs. old and a 4 yr. old Her husband gets drunk most every other day at the least, once he starts drinking he becomes very belligerent, picks on the kids, yells and curses at everyone, degrades my step daughter, etc.
Yesterday he got drunk and screamed at the girls cussing the whole time, one of the triplets got so afraid she ran and hid outside. While everyone was trying to find her he's walking around screaming that she better come out before he goes gets his belt to beat her butt. As far as I know he has never actually beat any of the kids but I'm afraid one day he will.
Its so sad to see and no one can talk to him and tell him anything, he refuses to listen and even says he's not going to change for anyone. Tells everyone that they are his kids and he'll raise them his way and for everyone to stop treating them like babies.
I've come close to calling cps but my wife is afraid that they will take the kids and she'll never see them again, we live 7 hours away and could never afford to raise 4 kids without some kind of assistance, otherwise we would love to have the girls live with us.
Its so difficult to know what to do, I can't go there as often as I would like but my wife goes and stays for months at a time to care for and protect her granddaughters.
My wife has been there for the past 3 months, I'll be going next week to stay for a week before we have to come back home. I'm already getting stressed out thinking about having to deal with the Drunk.
thanks for listening, any ideas or tips are appreciated,
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