Welcome to new members

I'm still finding my way around on here ( I'm easily confused lol ) I have 3 grandchildren and I live in Yorkshire. I love cardmaking.

Don't worry, Pammigran, you will soon feel at home.

Hello, I have just joined and wondered if you could help me out. Some of the abbreviations being used puzzle me. I get that DIL is daughter in law, GS is grandson but some of the others puzzle me. Is there s list somewhere, am I being dim?
Thank you for letting me join, it looks very interesting

Hello Poly, welcome! If you scroll down the page you will see one of the small boxes has 'Acronyms'. Click on that and it will get you started HTH (hope that helps!)

Welcome Poly580 . Hope you will enjoy GN. You will soon get the hang of the acronyms, it does save time when posting, but we don't all use them.

Hello, I'm new today. Thought forums would be a good starting point! I'm 52 and have a 3 year old granddaughter. I'm hoping to start finding some new hobbies, though that will have to wait as I move house in 5 weeks' time. One question, if I post in a forum will I get notification of any replies or further posts in the thread?

Is there any grans in my position. My son and his partner split up before Christmas. They have a beauty 2 year old DD. My son works away bit cannot accept tge split and still tends to be nasty. We had the worst xmas ever due to his behaviour. (He is 23).
Life is difficult enough. It was my dads last xmas bcos he is terminal.
Due to my DGD being the apple of his eye my DIL let us have the DGD all day yet my son still wasn't happy. Performing like a spoilt child and walking out taking his D.
It broke my heart.
It has really had effects one this split. I still see my DGD often and get on really well with her mummy.
But my son is due home tomorrow and II dreading it. I spend all my time shaking and worrying at the atmosphere we will be getting.
We have a caravan to escape to but due to me taking my father to radio and chemo and also I take my auntie to her chemo this doesn't give me time to dissapear. I lnow my son normally has an heart of gold but is hurting inside. I just wonder how long this will go on for. Has anyone else gone through this

Hello clare1608 and welcome. You'll get an email to let you know if someone has sent you a Private Message (see to the right of the highlighted area where your name is at the top of your post). Otherwise click on I'm on in the blue outlined boxes just underneath where it says Gransnet forums. You'll soon find your way around.

Whoops - missed out that those little blue boxes are at the top of the page!

Welcome clare1608 , you will soon find your way around on here. One thing to be careful of is to read the date of the posts on any thread you wish to join. It has been known for a newcomer to continue an ancient one by mistake. Most importantly don't be embarrassed if you think you have done something silly, we all have. You may also feel you have the knack of killing a thread stone dead like I do!

Playermojo117, a warm welcome to you too. I am so sorry that you have this split in your family. You will find a number of members of GN who have experienced the same, myself included. You are fortunate to still be on good terms with your DIL, which has not been easy for some. You will need to tread carefully, but hope when the dust settles your son will come to terms. My DD still has problems with her ex 4 years on!

Hi just joined today. Originally from Chicago grandmother of 2 girls 7 and almost 2.

Hi Tracey1012, welcome . Are you in the UK now, and are your grandchildren here or back in the US? Hope you will enjoy Gransnet.

Hi, I am new to this too. I am Grandma to my 4 yr old and andma to the twins aged 2

Hello and welcome glynis1234 . I hope you will enjoy all that Gransnet has to offer. Be warned, it can be addictive!

Hello.I hope everbody is okay.I live in Cambridgeshire andi don't want to appear sad but I would enjoy having a friend to talk to.

Helloam afraid I am new to online forums .it will be nice to have people to chat to.

Hello brendaj, welcome to Gransnet . I hope you will find what you are looking for on here. You will soon get to recognise names and be able to chat. I would recommend Soop's kitchen for a start. The Gransnet cafe is a new thing which might suit you.

Joining today, I live in Kent, I have 4 grandchildren, I retired late 2011 to spend more time with my mum, looking after her and work and wanting to spend time with the grandchildren just got to much, lost my mum early 2013, still miss her enormously, miss my job, hate being retired, feel like I don't have a purpose anymore, feel like I'm the only one in the world that feels this way, but common sense tells me I'm not. I would love to make new friends but lots of people don't seem to want to let you into their click, does anyone else feel this way, would love to chat. Bfn

I am new to your site and rather nervous of expressing my male views to what seems to be very many extremely articulate Grans. I am 85 with rather strong views about bad manners, greed in our society, vicious cuts in Care and Health services so I hope I do not upset anybody if from time to time express rather my own personal views. I have a desire before I leave this world behind to try to make it a better and far more fairer and tolerant place for younger people to grow up in.
My thought for today is "how I am saddened when I see the hate rage around religion and the intolerance being used to castigated everybody in those practicing nations for their believes. Why are we using social media to spread such hate? It reminds me of the many acts of intolerance we used to see towards Catholics and Jews in the 30's along with injustices around gay issues and those suffering from mental illness".

Can I plead for all grans and granddads to help to promote good manners, especially by being taught at home and in schools?
Bye for now, Brian.

Welcome tenacre3 and Pensionistabrian. . Although you have different needs for your membership of Gransnet, you will both find plenty to suit you. I am a coward who avoids religious or political threads, but the forums are a great Pick'n'Mix to appeal to all sorts!
I do so agree about good manners though Brian! I can understand where you are coming from, tenacre, I do love being retired and divorced, but now the grandchildren are growing up I don't feel needed any more. I sometimes wonder whether this is all there is going to be, but know it is down to me to change things if I wish.

Shysal, I agree it is down to us to change things if we want to, but we can't force people to welcome us in.

Hi Nannabee here, not sure if I've done this post introducing myself yet. I've been away from my phone quite a bit due to some illnesses, still recovering from a bad allergy, so laid up all comfy now; which always makes me feel more Nannafied, haha... on the sofa with a cover over me. What do you Nannas, Grans, Grandma's/dads enjoy about your role? I love teaching through reading and art and the way youngsters soak it up like a sponge. My granddaughter has such a colourful imagination and makes up her own stories to tell her mum and me. They usually include us; and there is always a Motto to the story. She also entertains her younger brothers - 2, and four month old baby with her tales. I love this the most and the baby chuckles. Ahhh can't wait till I'm back on my feet to nip up and see them. The youngest went swimming with his mum, dad and I for the first time last week. He loved it which was great. He was dipped in not two foot more than where I took his Mumma and her brother for their first swims like twenty odd years ago. Historic moment. Ah that's another great thing about grandparenthood guys... Being able to get involved in all those fun activities and being a big kid again. Paha I notice how the grandkids guffaw when they see old Nanna Brook (as they call me) being silly or funny, sometimes I do put it on for them. Anyway looking forward to reading your posts... I hope to be in at least once a week, possibly more. Tara for now NB

Welcome Nannabee , you sound like good fun! Sorry to hear that you have been laid up. Hope you will be back to your usual self soon. It is funny to hear you tell of possibly visiting Gransnet once a week, I am addicted and can't resist a quick look several times a day! Enjoy!

Hello , I'm Englishman "Usisyavillage" joined last night and I live in an African Village called USISYA, and my property is on the lake shore. It is so fulfilling to be able to help genuine poor people, and be in a paradise place at the same time -- please share your experiences in Africa with me .

Welcome. Usisyavillage*. Hope you will find plenty to entertain you on Gransnet. I would be interested to hear in what way you are helping people in your village. It is probably not a paradise for them.