Our lovely daughter in law moans when I say 'it's only another birthday'. I am told very firmly that every anniversary of the day of our birth is as important as another and we are all deserving of celebration. Not a bad motto, ann, so celebrate each year, no matter the number attached to it. If nothing else take that beautiful handbag out for a while. I've given up saving nice things, I use and enjoy them, if I feel down I put on something that I would have kept for 'best' and never worn, it does help with the self esteem and generally lifts the spirits. Doesn't matter if no one else sees it. So 'ann' and all our lovely GN friends, keep on celebrating as best we can, we are all deserving of it.