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Note to Self.....

(192 Posts)
illtellhim Tue 29-Aug-17 07:45:56

Today, I will do one thing to help myself.
It doesn't matter how small the step is, as long as it helps me move forward.

illtellhim Thu 07-Sept-17 07:32:11

Dear Self,
I know you struggle sometimes but in case I don't tell you enough, you're beautiful. Thank you for being so strong and transparent, the world sees you even when you feel invisible. I appreciate your heart and your stubbornness. your willingness to love even after being discarded and forgotten is admirable. I'm so proud to know that you've grown to acknowledge your worth.

With Love,
Self.

MawBroon Thu 07-Sept-17 07:59:33

See Friday 1 September hmm
You haven't responded to any questions about why you post these or what you hope to achieve. Any reason?
Or just bored?

FarNorth Thu 07-Sept-17 09:10:39

Who cares?

MawBroon Thu 07-Sept-17 10:20:44

I suppose I thought it might have been interesting....

illtellhim Fri 08-Sept-17 07:02:03

Not everyone you love will stay.
Not everyone you trust will be loyal.
Some people only exist as examples of what to avoid.

MawBroon Fri 08-Sept-17 08:15:22

confused??

Imperfect27 Fri 08-Sept-17 08:25:31

Here we go again - the daily ping pong ...Maw behave! grin

MawBroon Fri 08-Sept-17 08:34:00

grin

MamaCaz Fri 08-Sept-17 08:44:54

I'm starting to feel sick now!

Actually, I can just imagine Trump standing looking in his mirror every morning uttering such c**p to himself - well, without the "I know you struggle sometimes" bit, obviously.

illtellhim Sat 09-Sept-17 07:25:45

Note to Self

You will never gain anyone's approval by begging for it.

When you stand confident in your own worth, respect follows.

NfkDumpling Sat 09-Sept-17 07:47:23

I'm not beautiful, clever or perfect and Notes to Self won't make me so. But I've now got to an age when I accept me for who I am - scars, warts an' all. I hate these quotes that daily pop up on FB etc. They all seem to be aimed at building up self-centredness and expectation, and rarely empathy and the generosity to see good in others. Like the 'Because you're worth it' advert. I'm not worth anything I haven't worked for.

MawBroon Sat 09-Sept-17 08:15:04

smile.
shock yawn!

Nelliemoser Sat 09-Sept-17 09:49:11

What's with all this navel gazing? It's platitude corner here today . wink

Elegran Sat 09-Sept-17 09:52:38

Note to self - the more time you spend gazing at your navel and contemplating packaged advice, the less time you have to actually DO something about your own problems or help someone else whose situation is worse.

MawBroon Sat 09-Sept-17 12:18:41

Maybe we need an extension to Pedants' Corner called Platitude Corner?? grin

Elegran Sat 09-Sept-17 13:34:41

Ooooh yes, Maw!

Bellanonna Sat 09-Sept-17 20:31:50

illtellhim. Will you start it?

illtellhim Sun 10-Sept-17 08:04:19

Note to self :-

It may be hard but hard is not IMPOSSIBLE

MawBroon Sun 10-Sept-17 08:07:18

Has to be Illtellhim's prerogative
None Cornier, , none more platitudinous grin

FarNorth Sun 10-Sept-17 12:49:53

You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it throw stones.

Elegran Sun 10-Sept-17 12:52:21

You can take a horse to the water but a pencil must be lead. (metaphor for "matchmaking for others is not always successful")

MawBroon Sun 10-Sept-17 14:59:48

(Only works if you say it Elegran)
"Led" not "lead" grin

Elegran Sun 10-Sept-17 16:11:55

It would have worked if I had left out the A and told everyone to read it out loud - but I am a compulsively correct speller.

You do need to get the reference to lead in pencils, too. All in all, not a very successful saying.

FarNorth Sun 10-Sept-17 21:15:25

Well, I got it all right Elegran smile

Elegran Sun 10-Sept-17 21:56:01

It wasn't wasted, then!