Good Morning Saturday 6th June 2026
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as most of you know Mr Biker is very poorly (he hasn't got a bike by the way)!
this week we have had the hospital bed delivered, and lovely nurses coming and talking and sorting OH out, he is under the impression I am going to get him better like I have always done in the past when things have take a turn for the worse, but unfortunately yesterday when certain drugs arrived from the chemist It sank in that I can't make him better this time,the nurses are coming later to talk me through the drugs and side effects etc, they really are so kind, OH half has managed three spoonfulls of custard today.
On the other side of the coin my DD whos has one and only GS announced 3 months ago she is pregnant (after being told it was unlikely she wouldnt have any more children) GS is 7.
OH was sooo ....... chuffed to hear the news ( I didn't announce it any earlier as DD has had 2 scares) and has now had 20 wk scan and it seems we are to have another GS 
she has to go for another scan as baby was lying awkward, but apparently he likes "showing his bits!
I am finding really hard to concentrate on either situation, I feel so sorry for DD having to cope with her dad so ill,s it's difficult to focus on the baby, a few days after OH had heard the news he said "I want to hold this baby"..but the way things are going it is very unlikely.
I do think things happen for a reason and maybe that having a new life to focus on will ease the way.
Lots of love bikergran to you and your family on this day.
Look after yourself, be kind to yourself in the coming months and remember that death will never take love away. Your DH will always be with you.
I hope today goes as you wish. Thinking of you all.
My thoughts are with you today biker
For today
In my thoughts today especially.
Thinking of you bikergran
Biker - "To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die".
I hope all went well this morning, biker. Been thinking of you and your family.
Hello all, well as you all know the Funeral was yesterday and I think it was better it being early, all went perfect, apart from the original hiccup with the Funeral people, we moved Mr Biker to another one, an independent one, and poor soul had been moved around at home with different mattresses , he must have wondered what the heck was going on!
The service was just perfect, with his eldest son reading and one of dd also reading, I am so glad we went with the independent funeral director, as he had little touches that made such a difference (roses given out to close family to put on the coffin as we were leaving)
I felt peaceful, I thought I would be a reck! but quite the opposite!
Not sure how I am meant? to be feeling, and maybe it is all a bit numb and hasn't sunk in I don't know.
But I know I have to try and move on and I know I will do at some time,I don't want to doom and gloom on GN too much as we all have our problems, and once again a BIG thanks to you all, Mr Biker would have been so pleased at all the support and virtual cards I received.
Chat soon and goodnight 
So glad all went well Biker.
One day at a time. One day at a time.
Lovely words and very true grannyactivist.
Thinking of you bikergran and wishing you 
and very happy memories.
Glad all went well, biker.
biker I'm so glad that it went well, look after yourself now
biker, don't worry about moving on. It's early days yet. You're still emotionally stunned and it has all happened so quickly. You may have said goodbye but you still have a store of good memories that will never leave you. You have good family support and the prospect of a new baby. Meanwhile, good night and sleep peacefully.
Glad it went well * biker*. Take your time and start to look forward to the new baby!
to all
Glad it went well biker
bikergran I have been away so haven't followed your posts. I send you my sincere condolences. I know that you will find some solace and comfort here over the next difficult months. Take care
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