I too will be thinking of you and wish you all possible strength for this last service a Mum can do for her dearest Daughter We were not meant to outlive our children and your grief will be compounded by sharing that of your daughter's partner and her children. I can imagine little worse but you have been so amazing up to now, I know you can do it.
Once tomorrow is past I truly hope you can find some peace of mind and comfort from shared memories of happier times.
There will be many tears shed by your fellow Grannies on GN. and I just hope you can feel our "virtual" hands holding yours and helping to bear you up. 

Fibre broadband and house phones
do you have plasterboard on your walls?
