I'm not going to tell him.....

Good luck from me too ga, hope the news will be all good.

Fingers crossed

Thinking of you ga and wishing you a speedy recovery post anaesthetic

I also has anaesthetic problems, explained three years ago, process adjusted and all was well so, please do tell everyone responsible for your care. I'm sure you and your MiL will be delighted to see you DH and have him share the load. Good luck, will be thinking of you. Sending and

Hooray - The Wonderful Man is home and has heard my confession. Fortunately he absolutely understood my thinking and is very grateful that I did spare him (and our children) the knowledge - and especially the decision of whether to continue with the cycle ride. Pulling out would definitely have meant explaining why he'd done so to the children and with exams to be taken that would have been an unnecessary burden for them.

It is very good to have him home and to be able to talk openly about it. I've never kept anything of importance from him before and it wasn't easy, but I'm glad I did. He's as brown as a nut and has had a lovely adventure and now he's working on the allotment as I sit here drinking tea. All is well.

Thanks for being a listening ear once again pals.

Oh grannya what a tremendous relief for you - not only to have him home again, but to have been able to unburden yourself on him and have his full support and understanding. You sound like a rock solid couple. I feel very hopeful that all will continue to be well for you x

ga 'you can't keep a good woman down!'
And you certainly are good woman.
You have put everybody before your self.
I know you will get through this.
Just let everybody at least be there for you now ga

Brilliant GA Think what a depressing time you would all have been having if you'd told him. His holiday would have been spoiled, the children would have been upset and you would have felt guilty as well as worried.

How nice to have a man who understands

So pleased ga, you definitely did the right thing and your wonderful man is surely that. All good wishes for the future.

ask that the tests could be carried out for when you are both home after the holiday,you will need someone to be with you after a endoscope any ways. Go and have a lovely holiday and dont worry about anything.

Had similar issue re telling my daughters about having potential breast cancer (thankfully not)checked out .Both said afterwards they would have worried for weeks .DH is very much the 'worry about it when you have to 'school .

Good luck with your GA and I hope you get good results. Well done for keeping quiet. I would never have managed it as I am too much of an open book.

Wow - that was quick. I'm going in for the biopsy tomorrow! I still feel very positive so it will come as a bit of a surprise if the thing does turn out to be malignant. The Wonderful Man has been offered compassionate leave and is actually taking it so that he can stay at home to keep an eye on me. I do feel awkward about being the cause of so much worry so I'm hoping the results will be good news and come through quickly.

Fingers crossed for tomorrow, GA. Your wonderful man is living up to his name!

Good luck for tomorrow GA! You know we are all with you in spirit!

Will be thinking about you tomorrow GA, hope it all goes well. Good luck

Yes - good luck. I hope it all goes well.

Will be thinking of you ga.

Hope all goes well for you GA
I'm sure your DH wil make bigwhen you get home, while you put your feet up

Good luck GA for today. I hope all goes well and the results are what we all are hoping for. Take good care of yourself.

Got everything crossed for you Ga lots and lots of love xxxxxx

Good luck today grannya, lots of positive vibes and love and hugs winging your way.

Best wishes for today, GA. x

Just catching up and wishing you well for today GA.

Thinking of you and wishing you well x