I told my sister when my mother died ,even though mum specifically said not to.My sister sort of abdicated from our family when Dad died as she didn't want any resposibility for mum...so she had no contact for 12 or 13 years .Even when mum was ill and I contacted her she still didn't visit.
She did turn up at the funeral with her inlaws in tow,cried a lot and then left.We haven't seen her since and thats been almost 14 years .
Maybe mum was right ,I dont think I would feel sorry for her now that I know how she behaved.It was all about her and not our mum ,who she admitted was a great mum and she's had a great childhood.Nothing as queer as folk!
Alphabetical girls and boys names January 2024