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DD will be discharged from hospital this afternoon.

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merlotgran Fri 26-Apr-19 13:34:01

It will be for the last time as there is no further treatment possible other than pain relief. She wants to be at home with all of us so we will do everything we can to make whatever time she has left comfortable and stress free. We will have support from Macmillan and district nurses and should there come a time when we are no longer able to cope, DD has agreed to go into a hospice.

Family support has been wonderful but I have to admit I'm a little scared and very, very sad.

Deedaa Fri 26-Apr-19 20:56:02

So very sad! I know I will face this eventually with DH, but I can't imagine what I would do if it was DD. I hope you still have time to build some memories XX

NanKate Fri 26-Apr-19 21:36:17

How desperately sad Merlot ?

BlueBelle Fri 26-Apr-19 21:43:33

So sad to hear this merlot it’s unbearable to lose a chid however old I hope she and you find peace and have some precious time together you are n my thoughts x

Sar53 Fri 26-Apr-19 21:51:21

Thinking of you and your family at this sad time flowers

Graso Fri 26-Apr-19 21:57:01

Wishing you all the strength to bear this. Sending thoughts and prayers. ?

PageTurner Sat 27-Apr-19 00:47:49

Merlotgran, I'm sorry to hear such sad news. You and your family are in my thoughts.?

Faye Sat 27-Apr-19 01:09:02

So sad to read this Merlot, this must so hard for you. Thinking of you and your family. flowers

ffinnochio Sat 27-Apr-19 05:44:47

Merlot Such a heartbreaking time. I echo all that’s been said. Wishing you strength and fortitude in the weeks to come. flowers

BradfordLass72 Sat 27-Apr-19 06:14:07

I hope that in some small way, all the love, thoughts and prayers mentioned here, will comfort you and your family.

May our love sustain you, our thoughts comfort you and our prayers bring you peace when you need it.

Much love
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GrandmainOz Sat 27-Apr-19 06:15:39

Loving thoughts are with you merlotgran I wish you strength. There are many of us thinking of you in your ordeal

crystaltipps Sat 27-Apr-19 06:16:22

This is so sad. Keep close and share your love and sorrows. She is with her loved ones ?

downtoearth Sat 27-Apr-19 06:49:28

Merlot you and your family are in my thoughts,I cant add anymore to the thoughts and love already expressed,you will find strength from somewhere within you and support from all on hereflowers

Lindylou51 Sat 27-Apr-19 08:09:42

So very sad Merlot. My thoughts are with you.

NfkDumpling Sat 27-Apr-19 08:15:50

flowers and (((hugs))) XX

Alima Sat 27-Apr-19 08:17:49

I can only imagine what you are all going through. My heart goes out to you and your family.

Riverwalk Sat 27-Apr-19 08:19:48

I'm so sorry Merlot flowers

polnan Sat 27-Apr-19 09:09:52

flowers I can find no words, but lots of love and prayers

Fugazi Sat 27-Apr-19 09:11:53

Stay Strong, Merlot flowers

Fflaurie Sat 27-Apr-19 09:12:59

My heart aches for you all. This is the wrong way round, we expect to lose grandparents, parents and women tend to outlive their men, but this is terrible. Feel free to come to us all on here for support.

Oldfossil Sat 27-Apr-19 09:17:55

Can add nothing to the sentiments expressed so well above. Wishing you strength - you already have endless love. ?

CherylMoon Sat 27-Apr-19 09:19:27

I’m so sorry to read this. It’s the right place to be for her. She is surrounded by those she loves.

Take care of yourself x flowers

Tamayra Sat 27-Apr-19 09:30:35

Dear Merlot No wonder you are scared & sad You have a time ahead that you will look back on knowing your actions were perfect in the current circumstances & that will bring you comfort in the years ahead
Lighting a candle & intending that it’s light will guide you thro this difficult time
Very much love to you all
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Patticake123 Sat 27-Apr-19 09:32:22

I understand your fear and deep sadness, all I can offer is my deepest sympathy and reassurance that you will be able to give her love and that will be a comfort for all of you. ?

jools1903 Sat 27-Apr-19 09:35:33

So sad, but try and be strong for your daughter flowers

glammagran Sat 27-Apr-19 09:39:44

There are no words. So sad for you ?