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*Callistemon21*, I’m not surprised at the number of no-shows. Dh was not,long ago given an appt.for a minor procedure - at the wrong clinic. He turned up on time for it, only to be turned away. So that surgeon’s time - at the right clinic - was wasted.
And a BiL with cancer who was having regular appts. recently had an appt. letter sent to the address he’d moved from 17 years previously! Just as well the residents knew where to forward the letter to - in time.
It would seem that all too often, NHS admin is chaotic.
Plus I’ve heard of so many cases where relatives of people with dementia have repeatedly told the hospital not to send appt letters to the dementia sufferer - or at least to copy a relative in - because even if the person doesn’t throw the letter away, they will never remember.
But the same thing happens again and again - ‘Oh, we can’t do that - patient confidentiality….’
Yes, but what’s the point, if they’re just going to miss appt. after appt and waste everybody’s time?
I was called for a colonoscopy as a result of the bowel cancer screening test a few years ago. I was given preliminary results afterwards and told I would get a follow up outpatient appointment in about 8 weeks. I got the letter, followed by a cancellation letter the next day. The re-arranged appointment was also cancelled and when I finally got an appointment when I turned up the appointment had been cancelled again and the letter informing me was ‘lost’. I never got any more, despite trying my best via the hospital and GP. When this years’ screening test turned up I got the all clear. It’s no surprise to me that the early cancer diagnosis figures are so bad for the UK if this is anything like typical.
My mum, who lives with us has had dementia for three years. I have her power of attorney and have exhausted myself pleading with both GP and hospital clinics to address all correspondence to me, as mum hides or bins anything addressed to her. They have taken absolutely no notice and we have been contacted several times by both to find out why we have missed appointments.
Mum has recently been diagnosed with breast cancer and despite informing the breast care clinic that she has advanced dementia and to address everything to me, they too are ignoring me in favour of patient confidentiality. So now, we’re running the risk of missing appointments for a life threatening disease. In addition, despite me clearly stating that I have mums’ LPA and that I did not want her told she has cancer, they did exactly that at our last clinic visit. Power of attorney and the wishes of those living with the patient in difficult circumstances don’t seem to count for much.