You imply no one else lives in that world. Glorianny. How expectedly pretentious of you.
How many times do you need to be told that the only issues I and many others have with any trans are those issues created by TIM themselves and supported by TRA.
If I was introducing the person next to me I would use their name and whatever they appeared to me to be.
If they haven’t thought it important enough to tell me what sex they are or what gender they feel like on a given day then I would use he or she depending on how they appear to me or use they if I wasn’t sure.
Rather than offend one of your favourite stereotypes, the butch lesbian, (I do find that so rude and discriminatory when people say that.) I wouldn’t ask them what pronoun they preferred. The few people I know who might match your stereotype would be very offended if I implied they were male.
The more of your posts I read the more ingenuously discriminatory you appear to be.
Gransnet forums
Health
Princess Grace hospital cancelled vital surgery for woman who requested single-sex care
(846 Posts)Princess Grace hospital cancelled vital surgery for a woman who requested female-only staff and would not accept a transwoman nurse as female.
After many, many complaints from individuals HCA Healthcare UK (owner of Princess Grace Hospital) has now offered the surgery involving female-only staff, at its Wellington Hospital in London on October 31 .
mobile.twitter.com/ripx4nutmeg/status/1587082103086276609
There are some seriously mixed up people. . There is gender, male and female, how you want to be recognised is up to the individual, if you don’t recognise it so be it, but don’t expect others to dismiss what they believe in. If you are in need of surgery be grateful that you can have it done in a country that treats everyone, just don’t expect the system to change for just you at the expense of the majority. You don’t want surgery, so be it. Theresa waiting list fir those that do.What if surgeons because of a bad experience they had, refused to use their skills to save a life, how would that be viewed. They shouldn't be working if that’s the case.
Doodledog ''The fact remains that transwomen are not women, although they should be allowed to live in peace and have exactly the same (sex-based) rights as everyone else.''
sex based, why?
You know, there is theory, and RL. In RL, my niece has had her name changed, she is married to a man- and because of her looks, her rights at not 'sex based'. They are her rights, end of. Her rights to live like a woman, work like a woman- being good at her job, really appreciated, and no threat to anyone.
The other two, have the same rights too- but as their transgender is apparent (despite good hair, full sexual reversal, good clothes, etc, etc) they are discriminated against, day in, day out- and even more so at night. Why should they be? I know you don't want to hear what I am saying.
Why should we not discriminate
on ethnicity
on religion
against gays
against women
against men
but it is totally fine to exclude trans people?
Yes your relative should have the same sex based rights as anyone else as detailed in the equality act. Sorry but I find the descriptions as to why someone should be a woman based on lovely legs etc so sexist.
The equality act allows for single sex spaces where necessary. I am getting quite tired of equality law being described as discrimination.
No, not to exclude transpeople. Nobody has suggested that they be discriminated against. Nobody.
We have sex-based rights because (a) men are usually bigger and stronger than most women, and (b) because after centuries of real discrimination, women fought for these rights.
Including any men in the category of women removes all of those rights at a stroke.
My brother is a man he is not permitted in female spaces. This is not discrimination. It is yet again the law.
I am not excluding transpeople. As I have said transmen should be accomodated in female prisons. It is the sex (a protected chatacteristic) which should guide those decisions.
Galaxy
Yes your relative should have the same sex based rights as anyone else as detailed in the equality act. Sorry but I find the descriptions as to why someone should be a woman based on lovely legs etc so sexist.
The equality act allows for single sex spaces where necessary. I am getting quite tired of equality law being described as discrimination.
'the feminine and lovely legs' was not sexist- but it indicates that in her case, no-one would ever guess, no-one would ever know. So she can do what she wants- her name has been changed and she is a Mrs, and she does not have to tell anyone that she was born a man. Her gametes do not show!
Even is she was naked, you would not know.
I have massive hands, they are bigger than my husbands 
Galaxy
My brother is a man he is not permitted in female spaces. This is not discrimination. It is yet again the law.
Let me guess. Does you brother look like a man? Does he have a penis and gonads? What do his papers say? Is he married to a man and is he called Mrs?
No but under the law could be excluded from a female prison for example.
So we have established after some time that the exclusions within the equality act which allow for single sex spaces arent discrimination.
Galaxy
So we have established after some time that the exclusions within the equality act which allow for single sex spaces arent discrimination.
I hope so!
Have we?
Let's go back to the OP. It was all nonsense from someone with an anti trans/gay agenda- and her reaction only based on stereotypes.
Because I didnt create the equality act, I know it's hard to believe but I didnt
.
wanting female only personal care is a right within law it isn't anti anything
Just in case no one has pointed this out, which seems unlikely after 32 pages
What does Princess Grace Hospital Specialise in?
Specialists in care for Women's Health including: severe endometriosis, uterine fibroids and complex gynaecological surgery and cancers, with minimally invasive treatment options including robotic surgery.
It specialises in women's health - amongst all its other specialisms.
Galaxy
Because I didnt create the equality act, I know it's hard to believe but I didnt
.
Well yes, I get that.
I would hope you would perceive the difference between a man who decides to dress like a woman, to pretend to be a woman, whether their intentions are good, or not.
And a man who decides he truly wants to be female, and goes through a very long process, hormonal and surgical, then legal to become officially a female on all papers. Why should such a person not become a surgeon, a GP, a nurse or a carer?
Why would such a person be any more of a threat than the average man or woman, or gay? I just do not get it.
women are allowed to request female only personal care under law this law was created because women who are ill/disabled are raped and sexually abused by men caring for them
Google it, loads of stuff comes up. It will have happened in your closest town. Recently a man was prosecuted for getting a women with down syndrome in his care pregnant
www.filia.org.uk/latest-news/2021/12/21/male-carers-and-the-sexual-abuse-of-disabled-women
It is why the law exists. No one is being unkind
They can become whatever they want why on earth would I care. They by the law would still be excluded from some womens spaces. I dont believe a woman is a man with his penis removed. I think thats a deeply misogynistic idea.
Men can feel whatever they want, they can do whatever they like to their bodies, it just doesnt alter their sex.
Men commit generally different crimes at different rates to women. So the threat from men and women is different. We can pretend that's not the case if you want but it wouldnt be true.
And we disagree.
And it has nothing to do with OP either.
Fleurpepper you refer to transwomen who have had full surgical reassignment. Given that most transwomen retain a functioning penis do you consider them to be just like your niece, and should they too be able to access female only spaces? Lesbians are increasingly complaining that male bodied transwomen declare themselves to be lesbians and want to have sex with them. They get abused and called transphobes for saying they will not have sex with anyone with a penis.
As a general enquiry can anyone tell me is there an exclusive word for an adult human female? Is there an exclusive word for an adult human male? Male and female are not specific to humans, a cow is a female bovine, a stallion is a male horse. They have their exclusive words and yet humans are seemingly being denied that exclusivity. Even plants have specific names for the male part and the female part.
Join the conversation
Registering is free, easy, and means you can join the discussion, watch threads and lots more.
Register now »Already registered? Log in with:
Gransnet »

