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Princess Grace hospital cancelled vital surgery for woman who requested single-sex care

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FarNorth Mon 31-Oct-22 15:01:30

Princess Grace hospital cancelled vital surgery for a woman who requested female-only staff and would not accept a transwoman nurse as female.

After many, many complaints from individuals HCA Healthcare UK (owner of Princess Grace Hospital) has now offered the surgery involving female-only staff, at its Wellington Hospital in London on October 31 .

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Mollygo Sat 05-Nov-22 16:26:56

You imply no one else lives in that world. Glorianny. How expectedly pretentious of you.

How many times do you need to be told that the only issues I and many others have with any trans are those issues created by TIM themselves and supported by TRA.

If I was introducing the person next to me I would use their name and whatever they appeared to me to be.
If they haven’t thought it important enough to tell me what sex they are or what gender they feel like on a given day then I would use he or she depending on how they appear to me or use they if I wasn’t sure.
Rather than offend one of your favourite stereotypes, the butch lesbian, (I do find that so rude and discriminatory when people say that.) I wouldn’t ask them what pronoun they preferred. The few people I know who might match your stereotype would be very offended if I implied they were male.
The more of your posts I read the more ingenuously discriminatory you appear to be.

Allsorts Sat 05-Nov-22 16:30:34

There are some seriously mixed up people. . There is gender, male and female, how you want to be recognised is up to the individual, if you don’t recognise it so be it, but don’t expect others to dismiss what they believe in. If you are in need of surgery be grateful that you can have it done in a country that treats everyone, just don’t expect the system to change for just you at the expense of the majority. You don’t want surgery, so be it. Theresa waiting list fir those that do.What if surgeons because of a bad experience they had, refused to use their skills to save a life, how would that be viewed. They shouldn't be working if that’s the case.

Fleurpepper Sat 05-Nov-22 16:37:02

Doodledog ''The fact remains that transwomen are not women, although they should be allowed to live in peace and have exactly the same (sex-based) rights as everyone else.''

sex based, why?

You know, there is theory, and RL. In RL, my niece has had her name changed, she is married to a man- and because of her looks, her rights at not 'sex based'. They are her rights, end of. Her rights to live like a woman, work like a woman- being good at her job, really appreciated, and no threat to anyone.

The other two, have the same rights too- but as their transgender is apparent (despite good hair, full sexual reversal, good clothes, etc, etc) they are discriminated against, day in, day out- and even more so at night. Why should they be? I know you don't want to hear what I am saying.

Why should we not discriminate
on ethnicity
on religion
against gays
against women
against men

but it is totally fine to exclude trans people?

Galaxy Sat 05-Nov-22 16:40:08

Yes your relative should have the same sex based rights as anyone else as detailed in the equality act. Sorry but I find the descriptions as to why someone should be a woman based on lovely legs etc so sexist.
The equality act allows for single sex spaces where necessary. I am getting quite tired of equality law being described as discrimination.

Doodledog Sat 05-Nov-22 16:40:31

No, not to exclude transpeople. Nobody has suggested that they be discriminated against. Nobody.

We have sex-based rights because (a) men are usually bigger and stronger than most women, and (b) because after centuries of real discrimination, women fought for these rights.

Including any men in the category of women removes all of those rights at a stroke.

Galaxy Sat 05-Nov-22 16:41:31

My brother is a man he is not permitted in female spaces. This is not discrimination. It is yet again the law.

Galaxy Sat 05-Nov-22 16:43:15

I am not excluding transpeople. As I have said transmen should be accomodated in female prisons. It is the sex (a protected chatacteristic) which should guide those decisions.

Fleurpepper Sat 05-Nov-22 16:45:26

Galaxy

Yes your relative should have the same sex based rights as anyone else as detailed in the equality act. Sorry but I find the descriptions as to why someone should be a woman based on lovely legs etc so sexist.
The equality act allows for single sex spaces where necessary. I am getting quite tired of equality law being described as discrimination.

'the feminine and lovely legs' was not sexist- but it indicates that in her case, no-one would ever guess, no-one would ever know. So she can do what she wants- her name has been changed and she is a Mrs, and she does not have to tell anyone that she was born a man. Her gametes do not show!

Even is she was naked, you would not know.

JaneJudge Sat 05-Nov-22 16:45:27

I have massive hands, they are bigger than my husbands grin

Fleurpepper Sat 05-Nov-22 16:48:02

Galaxy

My brother is a man he is not permitted in female spaces. This is not discrimination. It is yet again the law.

Let me guess. Does you brother look like a man? Does he have a penis and gonads? What do his papers say? Is he married to a man and is he called Mrs?

Galaxy Sat 05-Nov-22 16:49:07

No but under the law could be excluded from a female prison for example.

Galaxy Sat 05-Nov-22 16:51:57

So we have established after some time that the exclusions within the equality act which allow for single sex spaces arent discrimination.

Doodledog Sat 05-Nov-22 16:54:56

Galaxy

So we have established after some time that the exclusions within the equality act which allow for single sex spaces arent discrimination.

I hope so!

Fleurpepper Sat 05-Nov-22 16:55:17

Have we?

Let's go back to the OP. It was all nonsense from someone with an anti trans/gay agenda- and her reaction only based on stereotypes.

Galaxy Sat 05-Nov-22 16:56:09

Because I didnt create the equality act, I know it's hard to believe but I didnt grin.

JaneJudge Sat 05-Nov-22 16:58:10

wanting female only personal care is a right within law it isn't anti anything

JaneJudge Sat 05-Nov-22 16:59:44

Just in case no one has pointed this out, which seems unlikely after 32 pages

What does Princess Grace Hospital Specialise in?
Specialists in care for Women's Health including: severe endometriosis, uterine fibroids and complex gynaecological surgery and cancers, with minimally invasive treatment options including robotic surgery.

growstuff Sat 05-Nov-22 17:21:48

It specialises in women's health - amongst all its other specialisms.

Fleurpepper Sat 05-Nov-22 17:31:30

Galaxy

Because I didnt create the equality act, I know it's hard to believe but I didnt grin.

Well yes, I get that.

I would hope you would perceive the difference between a man who decides to dress like a woman, to pretend to be a woman, whether their intentions are good, or not.

And a man who decides he truly wants to be female, and goes through a very long process, hormonal and surgical, then legal to become officially a female on all papers. Why should such a person not become a surgeon, a GP, a nurse or a carer?

Why would such a person be any more of a threat than the average man or woman, or gay? I just do not get it.

JaneJudge Sat 05-Nov-22 17:40:14

women are allowed to request female only personal care under law this law was created because women who are ill/disabled are raped and sexually abused by men caring for them

Google it, loads of stuff comes up. It will have happened in your closest town. Recently a man was prosecuted for getting a women with down syndrome in his care pregnant

www.filia.org.uk/latest-news/2021/12/21/male-carers-and-the-sexual-abuse-of-disabled-women

It is why the law exists. No one is being unkind

Galaxy Sat 05-Nov-22 17:40:31

They can become whatever they want why on earth would I care. They by the law would still be excluded from some womens spaces. I dont believe a woman is a man with his penis removed. I think thats a deeply misogynistic idea.

Galaxy Sat 05-Nov-22 17:42:18

Men can feel whatever they want, they can do whatever they like to their bodies, it just doesnt alter their sex.

Galaxy Sat 05-Nov-22 17:44:47

Men commit generally different crimes at different rates to women. So the threat from men and women is different. We can pretend that's not the case if you want but it wouldnt be true.

Fleurpepper Sat 05-Nov-22 17:49:50

And we disagree.

And it has nothing to do with OP either.

Rosie51 Sat 05-Nov-22 18:14:38

Fleurpepper you refer to transwomen who have had full surgical reassignment. Given that most transwomen retain a functioning penis do you consider them to be just like your niece, and should they too be able to access female only spaces? Lesbians are increasingly complaining that male bodied transwomen declare themselves to be lesbians and want to have sex with them. They get abused and called transphobes for saying they will not have sex with anyone with a penis.

As a general enquiry can anyone tell me is there an exclusive word for an adult human female? Is there an exclusive word for an adult human male? Male and female are not specific to humans, a cow is a female bovine, a stallion is a male horse. They have their exclusive words and yet humans are seemingly being denied that exclusivity. Even plants have specific names for the male part and the female part.