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Daughter has emergency brain surgery....advice

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BigBertha1 Thu 16-Nov-23 06:26:51

My eldest daughter needed emergency brain surgery yesterday for an anuerysm. My nephew her first cousin died of the same thing in April this year at the same age as her. I have spent all night awake we are going to the hospital early this morning. I am asking for any and all advice from grandmothers who may have had experience in this area. My head is full of all kinds of stuff. I can't seem to calm down and think straight it's just not like me. I was a nurse so have a fair bit of knowledge clinically but I very muddled on anything else. Any support very welcome. Thankyou.

Aldom Fri 17-Nov-23 12:45:56

Wishing the best outcome for your daughter and peace for you.

silverlining48 Fri 17-Nov-23 12:50:57

Glad there is good news for your girl BB, but understand you will have questions because the other member of the family who sadly died. No doubt the consultant can advise and reassure.

growstuff Fri 17-Nov-23 12:59:40

BigBertha1 The partner of a friend had surgery for an aneurysm about a month ago. She was worried sick he wouldn't make it and he spent some time in an induced coma in ICU. He's still in hospital but in a normal ward and has to be kept quiet. He's not allowed his phone, but he's making good progress and will be allowed home soon, when care can be arranged. He's only in his early 40s. He won't be able to work for a while, which is worrying, but fortunately friends and family are rallying round. He's been warned that he'll have to make some lifestyle changes (diet, smoking, alcohol), but he's going to be fine.

I appreciate everybody is different, but your daughter's aneurysm was discovered before it ruptured, so hopefully she'll be fine too. flowers

dustyangel Fri 17-Nov-23 13:11:29

Only just seen and caught up with your post on Thursday BigBertha. What a frightening, worrying thing to happen.
It sounds as the news is very positive and I hope that you are able to take a deep breath and just relax a little bit now.

BlueBelle Fri 17-Nov-23 13:11:34

Oh what good news Bigbertha and may it continue thinking of you both

Moonwatcher1904 Fri 17-Nov-23 13:12:19

Hugs and wishes for a speedy recovery BigBertha. xx

welbeck Fri 17-Nov-23 13:12:38

sounds good , BB.
so pleased. what a relief. now steady as she goes.
you try to look after yourself too. pace yourself.

Esmay Fri 17-Nov-23 13:30:48

Every good wish for a successful operation and recovery .

Patsy70 Fri 17-Nov-23 16:55:55

All best wishes to your daughter and family for a full recovery. πŸ’

rafichagran Fri 17-Nov-23 17:01:42

Very good news concerning Victoria.

nanaK54 Fri 17-Nov-23 17:20:30

That does sound like good news, sincerely hope that the days ahead go well for your daughter flowers

62Granny Fri 17-Nov-23 17:38:21

I have a friend whose brother has had this done 20 years ago and is still going strong physically but it did change is personality a bit, so be prepared for that, I think being an ex nurse makes you over think the situation perhaps more than a layperson. Fingers crossed for your DD , hopefully she comes out the other side without any side effects.πŸ’ž

Grammaretto Fri 17-Nov-23 17:57:17

Such a relief for you all. May she get completely well soon.

Joseann Fri 17-Nov-23 17:59:46

Adding healing wishes, BigBertha1. flowers

Susan56 Fri 17-Nov-23 18:11:37

Encouraging news BigBertha.Adding my good wishes and prayers for Victoria and all the familyπŸ™πŸ»πŸ’

LauraNorderr Fri 17-Nov-23 22:27:16

Such good news BigBertha, you must have been worried sick.
Wishing Victoria a speedy recovery.
flowers for you both.

Summerfly Fri 17-Nov-23 23:11:16

Thinking of you BIGBERTHA. Hugs πŸ’

grannybuy Fri 17-Nov-23 23:58:59

So pleased to hear of the outcome. Wishing her a good recovery.

Aveline Sat 18-Nov-23 08:51:41

How are things today BigBertha?

Redhead56 Sat 18-Nov-23 09:14:23

I hope your daughter makes a speedy recovery πŸ’

Witzend Sat 18-Nov-23 09:23:06

Thank goodness - 🀞she’ll continue to recover well.

dragonfly46 Sat 18-Nov-23 09:45:53

Thank you for updating us Bertha I just popped in to see if there was any news. I hope Victoria makes a steady recovery, it looks like the signs are good. Sending best wishes.

Maggiemaybe Sat 18-Nov-23 09:53:01

Thinking of you and your daughter, BigBertha, and praying for a quick recovery for your Victoria. thanks

Callistemon21 Sat 18-Nov-23 10:10:03

Thinking of you and Victoria, BigBertha and sending very best wishes for a good recovery. flowers

I have no advice except for you to take some deep Yoga breaths and a moment or two of calm every so often during what is a very anxious time.

Baggs Sat 18-Nov-23 10:44:38

Glad your daughter is doing well after surgery, BigBertha. Hugs and ethereal support (same as prayers?) from me too xx