I know how to change the beastly thing but I hate doing it. I’m wondering whether to go back to sheets and blankets or, if I have a flat sheet under the duvet, how long can I leave the duvet cover unwashed?
My ideal would be a light quilt on top of me, without a removable cover, which I could wash every week.
AIBU To Be So Annoyed at the Stupidity of This
Father's Day Sunday — nobody makes cards for this type of dad


I dry my sheets very carefully, finishing them off in the tumble drier, and then I fold them judiciously and put them at the bottom of the pile of sheets. By the time I've worked my way though them all (I came back from abroad with seven giant sheets and twenty four - twenty four - pillowcases!) they are suitably uncreased, hehe!