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Where to move to ??

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CarlyD7 Wed 19-Jan-22 15:47:18

We are both in our 60s and have lived in the house where we brought up our 2 boys for over 30 years. Now, we both really feel that it's time for a change for many reasons - it's too big for us now; 2 couples we were close to have both moved long distances away to be nearer to AC and GC, plus the area is going downhill. And, most importantly, we want a Change! However, unlike others, we cannot move nearer to either son - one because he's in Australia, and one because his wife really doesn't like us (they've moved closer to HER parents). It also means that we hardly ever see our grandchildren (I've given up hope of this ever changing). BUT, we are lost about how to choose somewhere to move to. The only other relative we have is my SIL but they live in a very expensive area where we couldn't even afford a shoebox, and anyway, we're not close. We don't want to stay in our current town (as it really is deteriorating) and so it's time to be brave and have a Last Adventure, but where? Anyone-else done this (and not moved to be nearer to AC) and how did you choose where to move to? Any advice? Thanks.

M0nica Fri 21-Jan-22 13:34:11

Once you decide on where you want to live, do not buy a property until you have rented a property there for 6 months to see what living there is like. If it proves to be a disaster, it is easy to rethink your plans and try elsewhere.

When my parents retired many years ago, they throughly researched the area they were moving to, checking whether services were aavailable, shops, doctors, hospitals, public transport. They then throughly researched whether their interests were catered for by social groups, societies etc. They actually pulled out of one purchase because when they researched the area in detail, and found their intersts were not catered for. They had a wonderful 30 years of retirement in a town they liked with a large social circle built up from the groups they joined.

On the other hand, a friend made a rushed move back to somewhere she had lived in 30 years before. We all warned her that it was a big move and on a restricted budget, she could not afford a second move, we advised her to rent, she wouldn't. The move was a disaster and she was stuck and I am sure it accelerated her early death.

Tricia1951 Fri 21-Jan-22 14:04:46

karmalady

a small market town with friendly people. Go and test, park in the carpark and get chatting. Buses, local shops within walking distance, lots of groups. You will only get a feel for a place by doing the actual homework, not just online. It is what I did and I made my choice in the carpark

We moved from South London to a market town in Hampshire last year. We’re right in the centre, minutes walk from useful and interesting shops and the railway station. We love it and didn’t really know what we were looking for until we found it!