Tartan shopping trolleys aside (!) this dilemma comes down to a gamble.
Those saying 'go for it' may well be people who think that some risk is worth the rewards. However, a risk when you are young, fit, and with a good earning capacity can be ridden out.
I am much more bothered about OP's mental health issues. Whilst being over 50 is not in itself a great risk, it is an age when incipient health problems, mental or physical, can quickly get worse.
Something that really suits her and boosts her mood may well be just the thing to keep her well.
I think ceejay, that is where you need to focus your thoughts - and maybe think about what else may improve your health.
Should I be doing more for my daughter and grandchildren?
Last three letters contd. November 2015


