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(37 Posts)
gillybean Wed 29-Aug-12 17:14:16

I do not get to see my grandchildren at all . Do i have any legal rights to see them as a grand parent. I had hoped over time i could sort things out with my son but heart breakingly this is not the case .

celebgran Tue 26-Mar-13 17:39:02

Sorry forgot say flowers to you flowers and all grans in this horrid place.

Flowerofthewest Tue 26-Mar-13 18:12:12

How lovely, will light a candle on their birthdays. I love and miss the two little ones so much. The last time we saw her it was Christmas about 5 years ago, she was 7. I had made a lovely album with photos of the family she didn't see any longer Great Grandma, cousins, aunts and uncles with little messages. On Boxing Day she refused to go out with her Daddy and gave him the book back complete with pictures of us all including him. She had taken out the pictures of herself and her little brother. Very sad and so so obvious she had been instructed to do this. That was the last time my son saw his daughter.

Flowerofthewest Tue 26-Mar-13 18:13:10

contd, except in a pub garden a couple of years ago when she strode past him and completely blanked him. I just hope that Karma will come round to bite their mother in the backside

jeanie99 Mon 15-Apr-13 21:29:29

I don't believe grandparents have any legal rights to see their grandchildren.

mjw33 Tue 25-Jun-13 15:40:59

I'd like to offer my sympathy to these granparents who are denied access to their grandchildren. This is clearly a problem that is not restricted to the UK; it probably occurs in most countries, and the legal possibilities are no doubt very varied. We are grandparents living in Quebec, Canada, and our grandchildren are in Ontario. Like several of the cases reported in this forum, our daughter has decided for no good reason that we can see them only twice a year (and we feel if likely that even this 'privilege' will soon be removed), and they are not allowed to contact us in any way.

I have decided to take advantage of the tools offered by avaaz.org to form my own petition to try to change the law in Ontario. I will place a link to the petition below, and would be grateful to anybody who is willing to sign it. If you know of anybody who has similar petitions, I will be glad to sign them and encourage others to do so.

[http://www.avaaz.org/en/petition/To_give_grandparents_in_Ontario_ncreased_legal_access_to_their_grandchildren/?copy]

Maniac Tue 25-Jun-13 16:46:06

mjw33 Do you know the website WJ4SP Leading Women for Shared Parenting.Think it is based in US or Canada.Great policy statement.

Faye Tue 25-Jun-13 17:00:07

www.avaaz.org/en/petition/To_give_grandparents_in_Ontario_ncreased_legal_access_to_their_grandchildren/?copy

mjw33 I have signed your petition. I have also highlighted it for you. Good luck. flowers

Maniac Tue 25-Jun-13 22:49:46

mjw33 I've signed your petition .I would like to start one in UK

mjw33 Wed 26-Jun-13 17:07:38

Many thanks to Faye and Maniac. And send me your petition to sign as soon as you have it!

Minty Wed 26-Jun-13 17:52:20

mjw,
This might be useful
canadiangrandparentsrightsassociation.com

Ariadne Wed 26-Jun-13 18:34:04

Is there anything like that for this country? Just wondering...